You don't see PS4 owners crying about any of the X1 exclusive DLCs for CoD, The Division, etc.
With cod its a 1 month timed dlc , not a 12 month timed dlc . Also Destiny also has content shipped on the disc not avalible on xbox one.
Out of the box the ps4 verision of destiny has an exclusive competitive multiplayer map , strike mission and expanded arsenal and it will be unavalible for the xbox one for no less than a year that's before any dlc .
LIke I said , I rather not get robbed of $60 bucks for a copy of the game missing content than miss out on a single game