okay honest question guys, should I play skyrim?
I missed out on this sensation
Personally I think it's the best "base" game of the series so far. The game play mechanics are stronger and more interesting than all the previous entries (and yes I've actually played the main series in actual order), you can tell they've made iterative improvements in those areas as the series progressed.
I've seen people complain about the setting but I'm not in that camp. It could be because I grew up and live in similar surrounds (mountains, forests, cold/snowy) so that's easy to connect with me. The game is really "gray" though given that.
The thing also with TES games in general, especially if you play on the PC, is they age rather well due to the modding scene and are also rather tunable due to the modding scene if you want to dive into that.
I played elder scrolls 4? a touch and got lost, and a touch of oblivion (also got lost) when it came out. But that's about it. I don't mind older titles, as long as the game itself is good.
4 is Oblivion in the main series, so you might thinking of 3. The more modern games do follow modern game trends, whether you want to term that positively as "quality of life" or negatively as "hand holding."
But the games are easy to get lost in just due to the inherent design with them in that the main story doesn't really matter intrinsically to the the game. There's really nothing remotely in place that hard focuses you into the main story quest chain.
Have you played any prior entries in the series?
A well known property of Elder Scrolls games is that your first one will always be your favorite.
Although I'm not sure if that still holds if your first one is already a decade out of date when you play it.
I don't fall in that camp. I've actually in hindsight surprisingly played them in order of release (yes, even Arena which I barely remember) and think each game is better than the previous. But I'll put a caveat in that I'm not really into nostalgia and that "good old days" camp in general.
Also the other main reason is I'm into the modding side of TES/Bethesda games. Modding is what really raises the series (and also why I actually like Oblivion since I'd say that's when it really took off and exploded) to all time status for me personally past just good/great status.
This is also my concern however with Bethesda games going forward and Starfield since they've shown more of a push to try to attempt to regulate and monetize off modding. This at least to me raises a concern with Starfield and also TES6 going forward.
As an aside I also remember being an odd one out in liking the Gamebyro/Creation engine and against the idea of switching to ID Tech when the acquisition happened, as the ID Tech engine (especially at time time then) was extremely not conducive to modding in stark contrast with Gamebryo/Creation.