I'm now scared of gays

zurich said:
Sounds like you have some issues with sexuality and self-security (I don't mean sexual orientation, rather self-esteem and that jazz).

Generally speaking, anyone who hits on you, rather they be ugly women or hot men or sheep fucking hicks, if they are hitting on you, they find you attractive. If you have a problem accepting that someone can find you attractive for whatever reason, then you've got some stuff to work through.

Nothing to do with people being pigs in bars, it's not flattering regardless, some 50 year old geezer sucking on his finger and pointing upstairs toward the bathrooms for instance after repeatedly telling him he was barking up the wrong tree, retarded crap like that isn't flattering. If some guy came up and told me I had nice eyes or something, I might feel flattered, tell him thanks but I got a girlfriend.. but not crap like that. Don't make a habbit of going to gay bars, but a friend was in a dj contest there and wanted people to vote for him.. only reason for every going to one is because someone else wants to.. hate the music, free bbq out back sometimes, so that's good, lol

Self esteem problems, I got no problems with compliments, thanks anyway.. No issues with sex other than how often I get it sometimes, lol...
 
digitalwanderer said:
K.I.L.E.R said:
WHAT?

I would have taken him up on that offer.
Why not politely let him down during your time together. Try to make friends.
Yeah, not to mention some free drinks. ;)

:LOL:

BTW it happened to me several times - nothing miracle here, Rev. It's the same like some less-than-hot girl attacks: say something nice but solid NO, I'M NOT INTERESTED and that's it.
 
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