Colleagues "interests"....
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Sage said:
Trust me, when I see a really ugly girl the last thing I ever do is actually fantasize having sex with her. It just doesn't happen.
What can i not what?
John Reynolds said:
well there's a difference between fantasising about it and having the thought pop into your head. i dont mean spend time imagining it.. it just kinda pops into your head. sometimes you cant make it go away... it sticks like semen floating in water to skin... and the more you try to get rid of it the worse it gets... it just keeps comming back, and forcing you to look at their genitals.... ewww god i hate it when that happens.
It's not about you fantasising having sex with an unattractive (I don't use the word "ugky" as sometimes a person who someone might say is "ugly" might be attractive to you in some strange way. Like some brutal looking man might be ugly to many, but I might find him sexually attractive) person. It's about you thinking that unattractive person might fantasise having sex with you. There's a difference.
rabidrabbit said:
oh.........
but still.. cmon.... you see a person how can you not imagine having sex with them? i can see not imagining having sex with an animal or inannimate object... but.... a person? people have sex with people... thats what people do... you can potentially have sex with anyone so how can it not pop into your head? i mean.. really... thats what people do with each other. they have sex. so shouldnt that like be the first thing that comes to your mind when you see someone new?
Sage said:
Simple, you just don't, in the same way you don't with any person walking down the street you didn't see or half saw, the thought just never enters your head. It *is* possible to be attracted to someone without imagining having sex with them, purley by how they look, moreover I'd say thats normal.
sytaylor said:
but... that's what people do with each other- they have sex. so, unless you're having sex with someone else, why wouldnt you be thinking about having sex. and (most) people have sex with other people. so, then, every person you meet is a potential partner. even if you just half see them. i dont get how it could just not enter your brain. that's what people do with each other. i just dont understand how you could not even think about it. people have sex, right? so, of course you're going to think about it. it's like food- everyone has to eat, everyone eats food, how can you look at food and not think about eating it? that's what you do with food- you eat it. and that's what you do with other people- you have sex with them.
About the closest I get to that is if I see a woman that at first glance seems attractive, I might picture what they look like naked and 9 out of 10 times it's blah, nothing special, pretty much guaranteed to be even less interesting than you imagine in reality, lol. I mean what is there to imagine, you don't know what they are like in bed, there is nothing they are wearing that will tell you that.. lol I can see fantasizing about having sex with someone you know that has told you sex stories or something, but other than that, all you can really do is picture what their general shape is like... Could have a bush the size of a house plant for all you know.. lol
Himself said:
c'mon man, where's your libido!?
Himself said:
what they are "like"? I dont understand what relevance that has. And as for the shape... well that's why you look closer. and its not like you have to have an accurate picture to have a picture. you get one, then look closet to try and make it more accurate.
Himself said:
oh yeah, don't i know it....
8) (and if you look at the right angle from the right spot you can usually tell... gawd i love it when i can see a little puffyness in that area... damn... see now you've got me all horny thinking about all 20 or so women i work with... damn... heheh... even the 2 "Mexican Grapes" [short mexican girls that are very very pregnant] )
Leto said:
ahh you must be familiar with it. man, i tell you, nothing more annoying that whacking off in the bath and then waking up the next morning to realize you're got the stuff stuck all over you. i learned pretty young not to bathe in water I'd already spurted in.
**throws a temper tantrum**
why do i have to be alone!? i hate it! im tired of it, i dont want to be alone! i never wanted to be alone! i see people who dont deserve or even want to be in a relationship but they are, but im not allowed to be! ITS NOT F*CKING FAIR GODDAMMIT
why do i have to be alone!? i hate it! im tired of it, i dont want to be alone! i never wanted to be alone! i see people who dont deserve or even want to be in a relationship but they are, but im not allowed to be! ITS NOT F*CKING FAIR GODDAMMIT
ok im watchihg tv and like this guy is all trying to score points with his wife so she will let him go to UFC or something and he's made her so hapy that she's all trying to give him sex... not just sex, but kinky sex... and she's like practically tackling him... and he busts out with "no! i dont wanna waste my points on sex!" which of course pisses her off and he doesnt end up with se or UFC. but I'm sitting there yelling "YOU ******* MORON! SHE WAS GONNA LET YOU DO STUFF TO HER! WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU TURN THAT DOWN!" i mean OMG that guy doesnt NOT deserve to be married! and, yet, he has a (exxxxxxxxtremely hot) woman BEGGING him to do stuff to her! ******* ******* *********** world! it's NOT ************* FAIR!
Sage, the fact that you're mostly sober when you write your posts is worrying.
By the way, i do not picture myself having sex with everyone i see. Like, i was on the tube today (and everyday) and i know that i did not picture myself having sex with anyone of the hundreds of people i saw. Ok, maybe a very cute guy on my train, but just him!!! And even then, i didn't even picture "having sex" with him, i did wonder what he looked like with no clothes on though.
That's what i mostly do actually, i imagine what some people would look like with no clothes on, just out of curiosity...
Maybe i don't imagine having sex with everyone i see because when i imagine having sex i have a library of experiences in my memory that is MUCH more interesting and vivid than any "dream" or even porn video out there...
By the way, i do not picture myself having sex with everyone i see. Like, i was on the tube today (and everyday) and i know that i did not picture myself having sex with anyone of the hundreds of people i saw. Ok, maybe a very cute guy on my train, but just him!!! And even then, i didn't even picture "having sex" with him, i did wonder what he looked like with no clothes on though.
That's what i mostly do actually, i imagine what some people would look like with no clothes on, just out of curiosity...
Maybe i don't imagine having sex with everyone i see because when i imagine having sex i have a library of experiences in my memory that is MUCH more interesting and vivid than any "dream" or even porn video out there...
Leave the Beatles out of my threads!!!!!
