Gay High

DemoCoder said:
Far more kids are bullied and harassed everyday compared to gays, to the point that we get episodes like Columbine.

Actually, there have been several attempted homosexual school shootings in the past year - Thankfully, the only weapon that didn't clash with their attire was a SuperSoaker. < shrug >

Not that I fear, God put the scum-suckers of this world - trial-lawyers - here to rectify situations like this.
 
DemoCoder said:
How about a school for nerds? Ugly people? Outcasts? Goth's? Bullied people?

Far more kids are bullied and harassed everyday compared to gays, to the point that we get episodes like Columbine.

I thought that it would be good to separate the boyz from the girlz but this? Gesh, what happens to the bullied in the gay and lesbian school? Well we should just simply create another school to protect the super sensitive gay and lesbians of course. Then after we perfect the gay and lesbian schools work on the ugly who suffer from bullying... On and on.

Maybe in the end there would be capital punishment for bullies?

This is using public funds? A school solely for people using public funds based on how they behave no less.. I wonder what sort of precedent this sets?
 
antlers said:
How about this: Everyone who wants to can go there. However, because of the way it is set up, it is unlikely that people who do not self-identify as 'gay' would want to go there.

So, what happens if a strait child is in a horrible inner-city school district and wants to suceed enleu of his detrimental enviroment, so decides to 'act gay' to gain acceptence after a moving, but ultimatly fallicious letter about his hardships and physical beatings due to his homosexual tendencies?

Do they have a special entrance exam to weed-out the 'posers' (Perhaps based on this years latest fall collection from Paris?)? How can they prove that someone is a homosexual or not? It's utterly impossible to tell what a consciousness is thinking and feeling... Hmm, perhaps, a special 'physical'?

And what happens if a strait-child is eventually found to reside because of some metaphysical reasoning based on 18th century witchcraft? Can they force him out of a public institution?

It's a Trial-Lawyers Paradise.....
 
Well if some of you truly have a problem with this school's purpose and you live in NYC then you can write your senator or your representative or the mayor or the governor and complain about it.

I see the service that hetrick provides as a good thing and I fully support it with my tax dollars. Hopefully the day will come when no children are beaten up in their place of education simply because of their sexual orientation and there won't be a need for places like hetrick. Until then, more power hetrick.
 
Vince said:
antlers said:
How about this: Everyone who wants to can go there. However, because of the way it is set up, it is unlikely that people who do not self-identify as 'gay' would want to go there.

So, what happens if a strait child is in a horrible inner-city school district and wants to suceed enleu of his detrimental enviroment, so decides to 'act gay' to gain acceptence after a moving, but ultimatly fallicious letter about his hardships and physical beatings due to his homosexual tendencies?

Do they have a special entrance exam to weed-out the 'posers' (Perhaps based on this years latest fall collection from Paris?)? How can they prove that someone is a homosexual or not? It's utterly impossible to tell what a consciousness is thinking and feeling... Hmm, perhaps, a special 'physical'?

And what happens if a strait-child is eventually found to reside because of some metaphysical reasoning based on 18th century witchcraft? Can they force him out of a public institution?

It's a Trial-Lawyers Paradise.....

If you think it's that simple to get into Hetrick, you are underestimating the extent of the physical/emotional/psychological damage these kids go through.

I've been there and spoken with some of the students, and a few of my friends used to work there. Their stories are not pretty.
 
Natoma said:
If you think it's that simple to get into Hetrick, you are underestimating the extent of the physical/emotional/psychological damage these kids go through.

I've been there and spoken with some of the students, and a few of my friends used to work there. Their stories are not pretty.

Yes, something that only a homosexual can relate to... go tell this to Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold. Or any of the kids who were harrassed day in and day out. You act as if this is an isolated incident that 'we can't comprehend'.

It's obiously not and fundimentally the state has no busniess doing this - it's constitutionally wrong to the core and I can't believe your advocating taking money and hope away from the poor, predominently African-American, communities who face socio-economic hardships so very far in excess of this. These kid's problems are nothing comperativly and they hardly need some plush, government funded, insititution that's only for homosexuals.

Give me a break, drop these little gay dudes off in the inner-city ghetto for a weekend and show them what the real world is like, it'll put some perspective and hair on their asses.
 
Sigh. I can see where this is going. If you really have an issue with it, maybe you should come to NYC (if you don't live here already that is) and visit the institute yourself. Listen to what these kids have to say. Statements like "these kid's problems are nothing comparatively and they hardly need some plush, government funded, institution that's only for homosexuals" are counter productive. Quote edited for spelling errors. :)

The point of this school is to try and prevent tragedies like eric harris and dylan klebold, both to themselves and potentially to others. Can you honestly comprehend what a situation must be like for someone to commit suicide or feel they have no other recourse but to take someone else's life?

If you can understand the type of psychological/physical/emotional torment that these children go through on a day to day basis, or at least have some empathy, then you wouldn't make the asinine statements you have.

Again, if you truly want to understand these kid's "little bullying problems," then I would suggest you visit Hetrick Martin yourself and talk to them yourself. I've done it. Until then, you're really just talking out your ass Vince. I mean, there's nothing more to really say at this point other than that.
 
Before I begin I should say that naturally I'm not intimately familiar with US law and constitution, so I'll have to make some assumptions.

I think it's well established that gays are subject to way more hate and violence than just about any other group. Saying that it's the same for e.g. fat people would not be true.

I assume that it's mandatory to attend to school in USA.

There are private schools, but I assume that attending to these costs money?

I don't think it's reasonable to lay the costs of having a school free from severe abuse on the one innocently abused. This is a public problem, not a private one.

Would it be better if there were havens for all other groups as well? Yes. But is it therefore worse that this school exists than if it didn't? No, I don't think so. Partly because it's better to help a few than not to help anyone. Partly because it may be a starting point for other schools helping abused children. Is it really ideologically sound to work against this? If one thinks it is, what is the goal of one's ideology, and is it a humane one?

It could be argued that one should treat all victims of excessive school violence as individuals and not try to group them according to sexual preference, body mass, skin colour or anything else. While this is a theoretically appealing approach I'd say it would also be ignoring reality. Unfortunately it does not seem as abused persons automatically refrain from abusing others. An abused overweight person may very well "attack" another person on account of him being gay (and indeed vice versa). I do however think it's unlikely that gay people will start harassing other gay people for being, well, gay (and of course the same goes for fat people et al). In short, while I have no conclusive proof I think it may well be necessary to have such facilities as this school.

I really fail to see the problem. It is mandatory to go to school. At the very least, one should have the right to go to school without being assaulted. IMO, that's one of the fundamentals in a society. One should not need to pay extra for a private school (money one may not have) to achive that. Off the top of my head, I can come up with few things more appropriate to do with tax money. If the constitution does not allow that I suspect that it's the constitution that is at fault, not this school.
 
Highschool was relatively easy for me (gay, FYI). Pretty simple really - make all the most popular girls love you (not hard), and then no one will lay a finger on you. Hell, I even brought my boyfriend to the prom heh. I was only assaulted once, but the punk was 5'8 (I was about 6'2 at the time, 6'4 now) and I just pushed him down a hill and booted him in the kidneys with my steel-toes.

This is a pretty bold precedent, and I'd probably be more inclined to make it a private institution, with an option for gov't grants for those that qualify. Being 100% private would exclude the service to those that need it, and 100% public poses a potential catastrophic backlash from the Jebesus crowd. IIRC, the private school for gays and lesbians in Toronto commands a pretty heft $5k+ CDN / year tution.. thats more than University.
 
Well, what happens when some of the gay kids at this school start bullying some of the other gay kids at the school? Don't tell me it won't happen - bullying is part and parcel of human nature.

Do they then open up another school for gay kids bullied by their gay peers?

Opening up a new school for people to 'escape' bullying doesn't deal with the problem in the slightest and is a cop-out to me. Spend the money and effort dealing with the bullying itself and maybe more people will benefit than just a select few.
 
Mariner said:
Well, what happens when some of the gay kids at this school start bullying some of the other gay kids at the school? Don't tell me it won't happen - bullying is part and parcel of human nature.

Do they then open up another school for gay kids bullied by their gay peers?

Opening up a new school for people to 'escape' bullying doesn't deal with the problem in the slightest and is a cop-out to me. Spend the money and effort dealing with the bullying itself and maybe more people will benefit than just a select few.

Somehow I have my doubts that a gay kid will beat another gay kids face in with a steel pipe while shouting "DIE FAGG-OTT". More likely that he'll just steal his boyfriend :LOL: :LOL: (i'm serious)

And if you're serious about the potential threat of physical violence (wrt bullying), then none of you really have a clue about gay men. They're probably one of the most docile demographics on this planet. How's that for the neurological differences between a gay and straight male?? I guess we just channel our testostorone towards getting laid, rather than beating up people, cause in all my years I've never _ever_ seen a gay guy partake in any form of violence against another gay guy.

Lesbians, however... are quite a different matter (again, serious).
 
Hope they are wise enough and make the toilets big enough for just one person, otherwise there is an increased possibility of being late of classes because of overlong toilet breaks and long queues to restrooms.

And I don't mean they are occupied because the bullies are flushing the rookies heads in the toilets.

Seriously, if this school is for only those gay studends who have been verifiably abused in former school(s) because of their sexual orientation and it is affectin seriously their lives, then it has a place in making those kids lives tolerable.
It is debatable if bullying and abusing directed towards persons sexuality is more damaging to personality than for example that aimed at one's physical appearance. At least in many places it is still socially more accepted to be physically deviant than gay.
 
Mariner said:
Well, what happens when some of the gay kids at this school start bullying some of the other gay kids at the school? Don't tell me it won't happen

Yes, it'll probably happen sooner or later. The point however is the tendency of hate bullying against gayness (so to speak) to reach other levels of brutality than "normal" bullying.

Opening up a new school for people to 'escape' bullying doesn't deal with the problem

Indeed it would be better if the bullying / abusing didn't exist in the first place. Hopefully hate crimes against gays will decrease with time as gays become more accepted (as I believe and hope will happen). I see this school as an interim life saver for those who need it now and can't wait until the problem goes away.
 
Natoma said:
Well if some of you truly have a problem with this school's purpose and you live in NYC then you can write your senator or your representative or the mayor or the governor and complain about it.

Um, I said several times I don't have a problem with it's purpose.

I have a problem with public tax dollars paying for it.

I see the service that hetrick provides as a good thing and I fully support it with my tax dollars.

Right, because as the typical liberal, things like discrimination and unequal treatment are bad...unless you are the beneficiary.

Hopefully the day will come when no children are beaten up in their place of education simply because of their sexual orientation and there won't be a need for places like hetrick. Until then, more power hetrick.

Hopefully, the day will come when no children, FULL STOP, are beaten up in their place of education simply because they are some type of minority, or they don't have a physical or social make-up that rubs against the bullies of that time.

This doesn't mean we create new schools for for opressed person. We are to punish those who perpetuate crimes.
 
horvendile said:
I think it's well established that gays are subject to way more hate and violence than just about any other group. Saying that it's the same for e.g. fat people would not be true.
I hope you werent serious about this comment. There have been groups who have been far greater victims of hate and violence. No offence but start thinking. You can hide being gay in high school. But can you hide being black? How about hiding how ugly or fat your are. :rolleyes:

Cnn just stated that the acceptance of gays has reached its lowest level since 1996. (cant remember the exact number but about 40some percent only). Keep up this sillyness and youll be responsible for alienating yourselves from mainstream society.

later,
 
zurich said:
...cause in all my years I've never _ever_ seen a gay guy partake in any form of violence against another gay guy.

Actually I have...but it wasn't because he was gay, of course.

Lesbians, however... are quite a different matter (again, serious).

I can see it now....the "West Wing" of the Hetrick school will be for the poor, abused male homosexuals, who get routinely beat-up and threatened by the lesbians...
 
horvendile said:
I think it's well established that gays are subject to way more hate and violence than just about any other group. Saying that it's the same for e.g. fat people would not be true.

Well established nothing.

http://www.fbi.gov/ucr/cius_00/hate00.pdf

Race (and blacks in particular) is by far the overall largest victim of "hate crimes." Followed by Religion (Jews the largest), then sexual orientation. There are even stats on schools as the "location" for the hate crimes...see page 21.

Hell, look at the "Crimes agaist Persons" (as opposed to property) on page 18. There were more (sexual orientation based) crimes logged against heterosexuals, than bisexuals.

I assume that it's mandatory to attend to school in USA.

Yes and no. You have to attend some type of school. Public, private, or even home schooling.

There are private schools, but I assume that attending to these costs money?

Yes, though it also costs me money (taxes) to send my kids to school. And I pay more in school tax dollars than many private institutions. There's nothing stopping any one, or any group, from funding their own school.

I don't think it's reasonable to lay the costs of having a school free from severe abuse on the one innocently abused. This is a public problem, not a private one.

I don't think it's reasonable to lay the costs down of having a separate school for a specific target of the population among the whole population.

Would it be better if there were havens for all other groups as well? Yes.

Sure...we'll have a white school, and a black school, a Jewish school, Catholic school....

Let's just bring back segregation alltogether in new and exciting ways!

But is it therefore worse that this school exists than if it didn't? No, I don't think so.

That's besides the point. Who is it that decides that one "minority" deserves special treatment more than another minority? Furthermore, if the issue is having been oppressed, then why is it not a requirement of the school to have been personally oppressed in the past? (I still can't find that requirement at their site.)

This is so plainly unconstitutional.

Partly because it's better to help a few than not to help anyone.

But isn't it better then, logically, to help even MORE?

Set up a Black or a Jewish public school. By the numbers, they are FAR more victimized than homosexuals.

This is great...let's have every group of people conceivable (including whites), tell their sob stories to the government, violin in hand, to lobby for preferential treatment.

This is so fundamentally wrong on so many levels.

Partly because it may be a starting point for other schools helping abused children. Is it really ideologically sound to work against this?

Yup. It would be more ideologically sound if this was a school for abused children, rather than a school "for folks of deviant sexual orientation, who may or may not be victims of abuse themselves."

If one thinks it is, what is the goal of one's ideology, and is it a humane one?

Absolutely. I have nothing against such a school, as long as it's private. I would even agree to have such a school (inclusive of other private schools) participate in a Voucher program...but the liberals don't want that....

It could be argued that one should treat all victims of excessive school violence as individuals and not try to group them according to sexual preference, body mass, skin colour or anything else. While this is a theoretically appealing approach I'd say it would also be ignoring reality.

The reality being, racial discrimination is a far more prevalent problem?

It is mandatory to go to school. At the very least, one should have the right to go to school without being assaulted.

Agreed. That's why there are laws against assaults, and that why they should be enforced.

IMO, that's one of the fundamentals in a society. One should not need to pay extra for a private school (money one may not have) to achive that.

IMO, one of the fundamentals of society is to not have the government to perform social engineering experiments.

If the constitution does not allow that I suspect that it's the constitution that is at fault, not this school.

It's not the school's fault, or the Constitution's fault. Is the NYC legislature's fault. I have no problem with the school, and the Constitution does not PROHIBIT such schools from existing, so there's no fault there.

The fault lies with the NYC legislature using public funds for this school, which is discriminitory, and does not provide equal treatment / access to all.
 
I didn't see this point raised in the previous posts, but I did speed-read the thread, so forgive me if it's redundant.

I have a problem with tax dollars being used for this as well. Seems like a good idea for a privately funded school, if enough homosexuals were inclined to give to such a thing.

The article (and other sources) states that the school is undergoing a $3.2 million rennovation to house what will eventually be 170 students, but what will in the more near-term not even be 100 students. I don't know about New York's current budget situation, but if it's like the other states, who the hell thinks it's a good idea to house 100 students in a building that is undergoing a $3.2 million rennovation just for them?!?!?

Your tax dollars at work, as they say. *sigh*
 
covermye said:
I didn't see this point raised in the previous posts, but I did speed-read the thread, so forgive me if it's redundant.

I have a problem with tax dollars being used for this as well. Seems like a good idea for a privately funded school, if enough homosexuals were inclined to give to such a thing.

The article (and other sources) states that the school is undergoing a $3.2 million rennovation to house what will eventually be 170 students, but what will in the more near-term not even be 100 students. I don't know about New York's current budget situation, but if it's like the other states, who the hell thinks it's a good idea to house 100 students in a building that is undergoing a $3.2 million rennovation just for them?!?!?

Your tax dollars at work, as they say. *sigh*


YEAH god forbid if ur tax raises of roughly 0.012 US dollars a year "for homosexuals" :rolleyes: ...sigh...
 
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