Hence the difference in speed terms won´t be that big?
With DDR4 you will have higher clock speeds at lower power and cost, especially in the future. Initial speeds of DDR4 will probably mirror high speed DDR3, but having high speed DDR3 in a console is much less likely than having the same clocked DDR4 as there will be a lot of room to reduce power and cost on the DDR4 at that speed in the future.
Let's assume 2500MHz. For DDR3 such speeds are costly and power hungry because it is reaching the upper limits of what the standard can achieve. With DDR4, the same speed is somewhat a low-mid end starting point, so in a few years it will be more like the mature and conservative DDR3 1333MHz, where the cost and power use is very low.