At the end of the day both consoles will seem relatively "weak" on paper, but will be quite strong when we see the games.
But they'll blow away current consoles by a likely real world factor of ~8X+ which is what mostly matters.

Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance <<-- You both are here.
Of course I am a big practitioner of the 6 step model (or the 1 step, skip the first 5): If it doesn't live up to expectations don't justify it with qualifiers ("it is better than what we currently have") and just don't buy the darn things
Ps- I bet half of the launch window games look like upgraded titles from this gen, i.e. a mish mash of medium-high PC settings at 30Hz and variable resolutions, many dynamic. Insert, "But wait until you see the 2nd wave games in year 3!"