At the end of the day both consoles will seem relatively "weak" on paper, but will be quite strong when we see the games.
But they'll blow away current consoles by a likely real world factor of ~8X+ which is what mostly matters.
Now Predicting: The 5 stages of grief for consumers devoted to purchasing a product before it is announced yet anticipating it will underwhelm:
Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance <<-- You both are here.
Of course I am a big practitioner of the 6 step model (or the 1 step, skip the first 5): If it doesn't live up to expectations don't justify it with qualifiers ("it is better than what we currently have") and just don't buy the darn things Now that is what mostly matters
Ps- I bet half of the launch window games look like upgraded titles from this gen, i.e. a mish mash of medium-high PC settings at 30Hz and variable resolutions, many dynamic. Insert, "But wait until you see the 2nd wave games in year 3!"