There are some problems with gravity and gravity waves.
For starters, it's extremely difficult to detect it/them. Gravity by itself is easy. Just jump. But measuring the effect of radical changes is hard. There aren't many good candidates for that, and they're all very far away. It just requires an extremely huge force to generate any change that might be measurable, a short distance away. We cannot do it. Which might be for the best, because anything clearly measurable would probably rip the Earth apart.
Then again, gravity is ruled by special relativity. Which says nothing about gravity as a force, or the propagation. It only stipulates that it bends the geometry of space. And at least that is proven pretty well, mostly by observing that photons do indeed change their vector slightly when they travel close to a very heavy body, like a star. And, as they have no mass at all (only spin and momentum) and no time in which any force can react on them, it has to be due to space being deformed.
So far, so good. But, special relativity states that everything is subjected to the speed of light, and particles cannot do anything else but hold to the inverse square law of distance. Which is quite a bummer, as it turns out that
all mass in the whole universe has to influence everything else through gravity.
There is no possible way how particles (gravitons) can be able to distribute and propagate the force (if gravity is one) onto anything else, unless you remove location from the equation as well. Which is basically what string theory does. And stipulate that there is about a whole extra universe (multiple extra dimensions) interwoven within the observable one, that only holds gravitons. Which seems to be a bit extreme to me.
Then again, nobody has been able to prove (or even hint experimentally) that gravitons might actually exist at all. Which might re-enforce the notion that they are in some kind of parallel universe to ours. Which is also what is used to show how other effects could behave like they do when they shouldn't.
I don't know about that. Sounds too much like: "God did it, stupid!", to me. Then again, it's almost certain that our universe is just some hypersphere in a much larger whole, so who knows.
Ok, back to gravity, and especially gravity waves.
We seem to have two problems with (all) the current theories:
1. There is no way whatsoever how gravity could propagate through particles when they would have to be part of our universe.
2. Although the gravity caused by any mass clearly seems to have an effect on every particle in the universe, that would require an instant force at any distance.
Therefore, the idea that gravity acts on (or essentially
is) the geometry of space itself, directly, is very hard to circumvent. But, in that respect, it is clearly a violation of special relativity (c)
as well as quantum mechanics (particles). The two most tested and reliable theories in the field of physics, that are the foundation of things like the highly respected and tested to death Standard Model. Or even mundane things like IC's.
To circumvent the most glaring problems, science postulates gravity waves. What those mean is: although the propagation of changes caused by gravity happen instantly on any scale and distance, the
observable effects happen through ripples in the fabric of the universe, that respect the speed of light and are quantified. Neat solution, isn't it?
Then again, just like gravitons and the violation of locality, nobody has yet been able to prove the existence of gravity waves, or even conducted a neat experiment that shows (or even might hint at) their actual existence.
In short: gravity is an enigma, and gravity waves are just a highly doubtful proposition to make things fit.