Sage said:
Told him what? Did you poke her?
best friend's wife (uh-oh)
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Told him what? Did you poke her?
*sigh*
yes, i poked her. and i've never had an experience as wonderful as that. but then as soon as it was over the aftermath began and the aftermath is turning pretty bad.
i want to make it clear that i NEVER asked her to come over, i didnt ask her to do anything with me, all i did was go along with it. im still guilty and feel like shit for not stopping it when i should have but its not like i broke up a perfect marriage, it was already falling apart with ot without me... this thing just made it happen faster and, if there had been another guy available that she was close with then it would have been him instead. i think she was just trying to find a way out and i was it. I was sooo hoping that they would work things out last night not neccesarily completely but at least aggree to try to pull things back together. It seems, though, that it was already dieing and theres not much that can be done. Oh yes and I did suggest marriage councilling.. they already went through taht and it didnt help
I know that all of this doesnt make what I did okay but at least I dont feel like i came in and killed something good.
yes, i poked her. and i've never had an experience as wonderful as that. but then as soon as it was over the aftermath began and the aftermath is turning pretty bad.
i want to make it clear that i NEVER asked her to come over, i didnt ask her to do anything with me, all i did was go along with it. im still guilty and feel like shit for not stopping it when i should have but its not like i broke up a perfect marriage, it was already falling apart with ot without me... this thing just made it happen faster and, if there had been another guy available that she was close with then it would have been him instead. i think she was just trying to find a way out and i was it. I was sooo hoping that they would work things out last night not neccesarily completely but at least aggree to try to pull things back together. It seems, though, that it was already dieing and theres not much that can be done. Oh yes and I did suggest marriage councilling.. they already went through taht and it didnt help
I know that all of this doesnt make what I did okay but at least I dont feel like i came in and killed something good.
Bouncing Zabaglione Bros.
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Sage said:
Ha - I so told you. "Men and women can be just good friends" my arse. Well, you pretty much broke their marriage apart, got some guilty sex, and probably lost two good friends. I hope it was all worth it.
It didn't matter whatever was said on this thread. It's part of the human condition that people have to make their own screw-ups in life.
Bouncing Zabaglione Bros. said:
Oh, bullcrap. I was waiting for the moralising to start
Sorry, if a married woman shags a single guy, why the hell is the single guy solely responsible for what happens in their marriage?NEWS FLASH: She took the marriage vows, not Sage!
Women aren't property you know. They're not dizzy air-headed little flowers who need men to do all their thinking for them and make sure they don't make silly mistakes.
Sage said:
Well, you know what you did was wrong but at this point all you can do is try to learn from the mistake and move on. There's nothing to be gained from non-constructively beating yourself up over what you (and she) did.
Nite_Hawk said:
i was afraid someone would rbing this up. no. and she was ovulating. she was REALLY ovulating the night before, though, and she slept with him that night. so good chance she is... who knows who it would be by. and she's quite fertile as well, got pregnant a few months ago (miscarried) and they had only done it withoug blocking stuff 6 times.
_xxx_ said:
well.. i never really have protection laying around because i never really get to have sex and if it sits there for like a year then its no good, right? and we didnt MEAN to actually go all of the way... it just started out mild, then eventually i was pounding at the gates to her fortress but not going to go in but after a bit she asked me if i wanted to and i said of course i did and she said ok and greeted my invading army with open arms.
So let me sum this up, you poked her, and you're now probably the real father of her first born child.
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Ha ha! This made my day!
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Sage said:
I don't know what kind of contact (if any) you have with them, but you may want to suggest that she ask her doctor about Emergency Contraception Pills. You should also get in to your doctor and get checked out for STDs. If the husband is sleeping around you never know.
Nite_Hawk
Kanyamagufa
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Hey man, I hope you can feel better about all this...I know it can't be easy, but you'll make it.
Don't beat yourself up too badly - from what it sounds like, you were right about the marriage not lasting long. Don't blame yourself for it.
Again, I hope things work out.
Don't beat yourself up too badly - from what it sounds like, you were right about the marriage not lasting long. Don't blame yourself for it.
Again, I hope things work out.
