best friend's wife (uh-oh)

[rwolf]

No! You should put noone before yourself. In a real relationship, there is love, respect and all, but not the option of becoming someone's personal slave.

That might work for you, but for me kids and wife come first. Selflessness spawns selflessness and selfishness spawns selfishness.

 

[digitalwanderer]

Heh, I actually consider taking care of myself an important part of taking care of my family now....I've never been more serious about my health in my life 'cause I have to be so I can be there for my family.

 

[_xxx_]

That might work for you, but for me kids and wife come first. Selflessness spawns selflessness and selfishness spawns selfishness.

That has nothing to do with being selfish or egoistic.

It's just that you have to know, respect and love yourself in order to be able to respect and love someone else.

 

[pakotlar]

Anyone know what the word "baka" means?

I do and I agree with you, he is.

To Sage: Leave her alone. Forget you know her in any capacity other than as an aquaintance of your friend's. Don't spend time alone with her.

I do believe men and women can be friends in a capacity outside of a relationship, but honestly the friendship between and a woman is very different than one between two heterosexual men. In a relationship between a man and a woman, its not unusual for their to be sex involved at some point.

Why deny your sexual instincts? Higher-level brain function overrides a lot of instinct that man has developed (ex: thalmus and bladder-control), but you will never forget that instinct. Do yourself a favor and get out of this affair before you do anything stupid. A 30 minute fuck is not worth the insurmountable issues that will arise because of it.

 

[Nite_Hawk]

I do and I agree with you, he is.

To Sage: Leave her alone. Forget you know her in any capacity other than as an aquaintance of your friend's. Don't spend time alone with her.

I do believe men and women can be friends in a capacity outside of a relationship, but honestly the friendship between and a woman is very different than one between two heterosexual men. In a relationship between a man and a woman, its not unusual for their to be sex involved at some point.

Why deny your sexual instincts? Higher-level brain function overrides a lot of instinct that man has developed (ex: thalmus and bladder-control), but you will never forget that instinct. Do yourself a favor and get out of this affair before you do anything stupid. A 30 minute fuck is not worth the insurmountable issues that will arise because of it.

er... you're a little late...

Nite_Hawk

 

[dizietsma]

I assume this thread is the male equivalent of women watching soaps..

My wifes best friend and I had this obvious sexual attraction for a long time, we sometimes messed about but never sex. In fact that was better than sex as the the thrill is in the chase IMO, the teasing etc etc and the "what if". Glad we never did it fully. Now she is in New Zeleand terrorising the men down there

 

[_xxx_]

Now she is in New Zeleand terrorising the men down there

OMG! A terrorist!