best friend's wife (uh-oh)

[digitalwanderer]

One more thing: if the guy really wanted to harm Sage, he would have done it already instead of talking about it. To put it that way, dogs which bark don't bite.

So you should just comletely ignore them with all their emotional issues and just relax.

Uhm, yes and no. Yes the guy obviously didn't really intend it this time, but what if his wife throws something about Sage in his face in a few days and it enrages the guy all over again and this time he don't exercise self-control?

It's a volatile as hell situation and will be for a while, I really recomend to Sage to seperate and distance himself from it as much as humanly possible.

 

[John Reynolds]

John.. just admit it was a man. I know better.

Debbie is a strange name for a man.

 

[MuFu]

best friend's wife (uh-oh)

Yep.

 

[linthat22]

..except that im getting treated for my bipolar and he refuses to admit that he is... im no doctor but i know exactly when my bipolar is kicking in...

Ever thought about taking Cacao beans to see if it will work? There's a book called 'Naked Chocolate' and I thought hearing the author say that the cacao bean can treat symptoms of bipolar and manic depressiveness among other things.

 

[Geo]

Jaysus! 14 freakin' pages on my best friend's wife?? Ridiculuous!! F**K or DO NOT F**K. Move on from there.

Puh-lease.

 

[John Reynolds]

Jaysus! 14 freakin' pages on my best friend's wife?? Ridiculuous!! F**K or DO NOT F**K. Move on from there.

Puh-lease.

I suspect Sage has derived more titillation from this thread than the act of banging his friend's wife. 8)

 

[Geo]

I suspect Sage has derived more titillation from this thread than the act of banging his friend's wife. 8)

Well, I haven't personally experienced the best friend's wife's titills, but it does seem likely!

 

[Sage]

it was the best thing that ever happened to me. nothing, especially this thread, can compare.

actually this thread has been somewhat distressing to me at times.

 

[_xxx_]

But it gave you some suggestions/alternatives to think about, so you learned at least something.

 

[Kanyamagufa]

it was the best thing that ever happened to me. nothing, especially this thread, can compare.

actually this thread has been somewhat distressing to me at times.

Completely understandable. I think everyone feels that way...

 

[Sage]

it was the best thing that ever happened to me. nothing, especially this thread, can compare.

actually this thread has been somewhat distressing to me at times.

Completely understandable. I think everyone feels that way...

yes but i do thank you all for listening to and talking to me about this as i really have had noone else that i could talk to.

 

[Tahir2]

Sad . . .

Sage mate, what you did, no matter which way you look at, it was evil.

Well done.

 

[digitalwanderer]

Completely understandable. I think everyone feels that way...

Not I. Disgust, revulsion, and completely and utterly aghast would much better describe my feelings.

 

[CosmoKramer]

Sage mate, what you did, no matter which way you look at, it was evil.

Well done.

What is a fitting punishment in your view?

 

[Tahir2]

So how do I use the ignore feature?

Sorted I think.

 

[Kanyamagufa]

Not I. Disgust, revulsion, and completely and utterly aghast would much better describe my feelings.

I was talking about his reaction to the thread, Digi...

 

[John Reynolds]

What is a fitting punishment in your view?

Castration is appropriate, me thinks.

 

[Nite_Hawk]

Castration is appropriate, me thinks.

Hrm... that seems like it would be more appropriate if sage cut off his weenie. You know, the whole "eye for an eye" thing.

So, with that in mind...

Nite_Hawk

 

[Sage]

BIG WHOOP-DE-DOO! Okay, so I slept with a married woman, now her husband is miserable.

you know what? i dont regret it anymore. she's HAPPIER now! It made her life BETTER! I'm glad that I was able to make her feel better about herself and her life. Sure, I could have handled it better (namel not actually putting it in her...) BUT the relationship was NOT a mistake. Yeah yeah she's married bla bla bla. I decided to stop letting people make me feel bad because of that. Being married does not mean you are a slave to the other person- marriage is for two people who are HAPPY together, if you're not happy and you've made a resonable effort to work out your problems thant you shouldnt be bound to each other! The whole POINT of marriage is because you find someone you LIKE spending your life with. Nono, I am not going to let you people try and make me feel guilty for making her happy and helping her get out of a miserable marriage!

 

[Nite_Hawk]

BIG WHOOP-DE-DOO! Okay, so I slept with a married woman, now her husband is miserable.

you know what? i dont regret it anymore. she's HAPPIER now! It made her life BETTER! I'm glad that I was able to make her feel better about herself and her life. Sure, I could have handled it better (namel not actually putting it in her...) BUT the relationship was NOT a mistake. Yeah yeah she's married bla bla bla. I decided to stop letting people make me feel bad because of that. Being married does not mean you are a slave to the other person- marriage is for two people who are HAPPY together, if you're not happy and you've made a resonable effort to work out your problems thant you shouldnt be bound to each other! The whole POINT of marriage is because you find someone you LIKE spending your life with. Nono, I am not going to let you people try and make me feel guilty for making her happy and helping her get out of a miserable marriage!

Would you say the same thing if she ended up miserable and alone?

Don't fool yourself into thinking what you did was for her. You slept with her because *you* wanted it, and you were *not* thinking about the consequences (unless you wanted her to have your child). If it happens that she gets out of a bad marriage because of it you can consider it a silver lining. You just better hope she doesn't get beaten or killed by her husband before this is all over because of it. How would *that* make you feel?

Nite_Hawk