best friend's wife (uh-oh)
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Bouncing Zabaglione Bros.
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Sage said:
Just corrected the above for you.
Sage said:
And that has nothing whatsoever to do with you sleeping with her.
digitalwanderer
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Ok, I get it now...you're a totally self-absorbed moron who cares nothing for other people.Sage said:
What is that, a dumb sociopath?
CosmoKramer
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digitalwanderer said:
Yep.
Kanyamagufa
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Something tells me this is going to get a lot uglier real fast...
People are too judgemental. I was joking about the castration, though I do think Sage is skating right along that slippery slope of justifying his wrong actions. But to each his own. Won't be the last time someone's wife receives the pork sword from a man other than her husband (excuse my gift with words <g>).
Vysez said:
Oh, how dare you? I am insulted!! I challenge you to a duel: whoever can blow-dry their hair the quickest wins.
digitalwanderer
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I'll accept that challenge, I'm starting to sport the full Picard look and I still keep it under 1/4" in length. 8)John Reynolds said:
digitalwanderer said:
Hrm.. lets say your in a relationship.. married oh I don't know 10 years.. 4 years ago you realised that you weren't in love .. sometimes you even hated your partener. While you meet other people you would like to get to know but you just don't because your married. Your social life suffers greatly because you can't go out with your frends to the bar or parties because your wife doesn't approve. So to avoid the greif you settle for a very boring lifestyle.. go to work ... go home sleep.. repeat. Sounds like a fantastic life. Originally you thought you "loved" her.. and wanted to spend the rest of your life with her but what you wanted changed later on. Suddenly its not what you want anymore and you live your life sacrificeing what you want for someone else... who is in this arrangement "self absorbed" .. who here is the moron?
Lets put your wife in this position I've mentioned above. Would you prefer her to suffer through life miserable and unhappy just so you can have things all set in place for you? Wouldn't that be a tad self absorbed?
Marriage .. its not all its cracked up to be and the extremely high lvls of divorce are only proof of taht . But hey.. you don't lust after other women do you Dig? Cause if you did that would suggest that your current state of relationship (monogamy) is unnatural. If it was natural, then you wouldn't want other women would you? Bah.. stop all this moralizing and finger waving at Sage.. you guys sound liek a bunch of hens/bitches.
So lets all spare teh self righteouss condemnation of Sage having a little run in with a frend. Big freakin deal. This shit happens all the time.. so whats that mean? Next thing you know you'll start saying the old bible pounders "society is going to hell in a handbasket"..
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DudeMiester
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Hah, this is movie material! Lets call it "Bi-Polar Attraction"!
I have no pity for you Sage, no matter what, even if he snaps and kills you. You dug your own grave. There are WAY better ways of dealing with this situation.
I have no pity for you Sage, no matter what, even if he snaps and kills you. You dug your own grave. There are WAY better ways of dealing with this situation.
Sabastian said:
Meh, I don't actually care about him sleeping with her that much. She made her own choices and whatever happens in their marriage isn't his fault. It just makes me angry seeing him try to claim that we are trying to make him feel guilty for "making her happy" and "helping her get out of a bad marriage". That's absolute bullshit. If that ends up being the case that's great, but he had no clue what was going to happen when he had sex with her. For all he knew she might have ended up regretting it for the rest of her life. I don't think it would have been his fault (again, she did it of her own free will), but if he's going to try to claim that his actions were ok because of the result, then he better be willing to accept that his action were bad if everything gets totally fucked up.
Nite_Hawk
digitalwanderer
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Funny bit about your analogy, my tenth anniversary is coming up in a few months.Sabastian said:
If I had "stopped loving" my wife four years back I would have talked to her about it, I wouldn't have just kept it locked up and let resentment/unhapppiness build and then later used that as a justifcation for infidelity.
As you say, this shit does happen all the time...but I still condemn it and feel it's wrong and happen to think a whole lot less about a person if I learn they practice infidelity or don't see a problem with it.
Mebbe that's being all righteous on my high horse, I think it's just common sense...whatever, it's me.
My wife's wanted to celebrate our 13th here on the 11th (we lived in sin together for three years before getting married due to my apathy toward the institution of marriage) and, surprisingly enough, I'm still alive after saying, "You know, the Egyptians didn't make the Jews celebrate their years of bondage so why should I have to?"
My wife is a saint.
My wife is a saint.
Aw, I love you too, John.John Reynolds said:My wife's wanted to celebrate our 13th here on the 11th (we lived in sin together for three years before getting married due to my apathy toward the institution of marriage) and, surprisingly enough, I'm still alive after saying, "You know, the Egyptians didn't make the Jews celebrate their years of bondage so why should I have to?"
My wife is a saint.
digitalwanderer
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Me and my wife only lived in sin for about a year and a half, but that's because "we were just friends, we weren't dating".John Reynolds said:
Gads I am soooo glad she stopped speaking to her mother about 7 years ago! Life has been so much better. 8)
