Ask Valve. ^_^
Sony really isn't that much different. I'm not sure where this Sony is open and gives flowers to everyone idea came about. They are just as hard assed and closed about their platform. For some things they may be more open than Microsoft, for others less so.
For standard games that fit within the boundary, it's hard to see the differences. It's easier to see when someone go against their standard operating policies, or conflict with their existing deals, and pricing structures (e.g., UT user mods, BBC iPlayer, FFIV). This is because these operating policies, economics and deals were structured with the assumption that the network is closed to Microsoft.
With new players entering the scene, they may be forced to be more open to new approaches though.
Because ND has a room of people that don't make games, they don't even crunch unlike the gaming people. Instead they do nothing but make tools, game tech, and visit companies to help them out. I mention them because they are the only thing in the ps3 universe (non games) to me that is even remotely competitive with the competition. On other aspects they are behind.
Besides the original ICE tools, the MLAA contributors, the Blu-ray stack creators, developers investigating stereoscopy 3D gaming, Dr. Marks and his group, the Marlin DRM platform, Insomniac's online platform, etc. are all valuable to me as a user.
Your exposure seems limited. e.g., I doubt you have any chance to interact with Japanese dev teams (e.g., in Polyphony).
Some of that is already on the 360 like dlna support, netflix, etc, some were available first, and some are still way better like movie selection and ease of movie viewing. For the rest, some of them weren't standard on ps3, you needed to use the browser no? I did not have access to much of the stuff you mentioned on my ps3 without the browser. When I last used the browser it was about as unusable as psn to me, totally half baked and a very frustrating experience. The odd thing here to me is how the same people are having totally different experiences on the same box. The media experience on ps3 to me, aside from bluray which was excellent, has been really bad bordering on unusable. Terrible interface, terrible codec support, weak dlna support, streaming media issues, network disconnects, poor and/or late Netflix support, and a terrible browser. Even some of the stuff you mention like Divx, more divx files played correctly on my 360, the ps3 would fail more. Are we using the same ps3, or are we just really unlucky/lucky and that is leading is to opposite experiences on the same machine?
Still can't hide the fact that without Blu-ray, the 360 is only addressing a small subset of PS3's audience today. For Internet videos, both 360 and PS3 are incomplete because it's a moving target with a long history of content incompatibility as the open source people prototype their stack. 360's DLNA support is not standard compliant (PS3 Media Server has to make changes to the protocol to accommodate them). You will be able to find content that refuse to play on either platform. Not sure why using the browser to play YouTube is bad. I use it all the time. I rent shows from PSN Video store frequently too.
NetFlix, Hulu Plus, BBC iPlayer, YouTube, VidZone, and more are deals various organizations struck with Sony without any run in with regulations and conflict of interests.
Yeah Microsoft has screwed up plenty, I'm very vocal about that although not on this forum as Microsoft already takes quite a beating here already. Although to be fair hddvd would have won if Warner had sided with them but in that circumstance it was Sony that cut the bigger check. Better that it died anyway, blu-ray is much better. I've openly said that the 360 is one of the few things Microsoft have done right in a long time because they had been screwing up for years. Seems like they are finally waking up though, albeit slowly.
It's their so called next-gen DVD; their new future. Warner wouldn't want to commit exclusively to an ill-supported format that has much lower demand compared to Blu-ray for 24 months straight, despite a very aggressive player price and an early start. The user demand has to be there first. Sony's relationship with Warner is only possible with this proven demand. And they needed to end the meaningless HD movie war anyway.
I guess so, I still don't understand how people can use psn anymore than how someone can use rabbit ears for tv. Still makes me scratch my head because it's so bad, but to each their own.
You don't have to understand. You may never understand. Just continue to pay.
The analogy is nice. Some people like AzBat (?) and I terminated our cable contracts because we don't think it's worth it. The HDTVs today already allow us to pick up HD signals over the air for free. But for people who have limited exposure, they would imagine that rabbit ears is the only option. In reality, there are other ways to get digital entertainment. And now, cable companies are openly considering a new cheaper cable package for us "drop-outs".
I am more interested to see free online gaming for the masses.