Here's a difference:
Find your copy of COD4: Modern Warfare, the biggest 360/PS3 game of 2007. Go online. Look at how many people are playing it now versus how many people were playing when it came out.
Now put your iPod on random. How long does it take for a song you bought 5 years ago to come up?
That's why BC doesn't matter for game consoles.
Ehmm they moved on to other games?
Find Monkey Island 1+2, why should i re-purchase them, again on PS4?
Boot up you Tablet, play the same games you do/did on your old HTC phone.
Now finally go play WOW, a game that came out in 2005(4) and is played by millions all over the wrodl, today, and tomorrow and when PS4 is out.
That is why BC matters. And just to be clear, i made a point of how it's the digital purchases that causes a problem for MS/SONY.