It's very much the same reason we teach our kids to say sorry after they've done something wrong; you need to teach them to empathize.
We teach them to say sorry as cultural programming and to avoid the anger of adults when they don't say sorry. They end up learning to say sorry even when they're not, and the meaning of 'sorry' gets lost, such that a person may say they're sorry to you and they may well be lying. Teaching people to act in ways they don't feel may make things more comfortable, but only if you take everything at face value and don't question motives. It's more important to teach what being sorry means and have them express remorse when they feel it.
Airing one's views is not an entitlement to being human.
It's a natural requirement. How long could anyone stay sane having their opinions and values silenced and having the world see them not for who they are but as a puppet saying only what they are supposed to say? Honesty is fundamental to strong relationships - having people like you for who you are rather than who they think you are based on your (socially enforced) mask.
Being human is very much about control.
It's about a lot more than that! Self control is a part of it. I don't see the need for self control when talking about CE devices any more than talking about football teams or favourite colours.
Accepting the
status quo is very stable but also means injustice can go unchanged. I'm sure back in the day many a woman said, "like it or not, only men get to vote." Along with any number of other accepted practices that we now look upon as archaic. Just because the world is like that, doesn't mean it should be. And open discussion without fear of getting sacked allows us to debate the issue. That's a debate anyone and everyone should be entitled to partake in. Just as it which is the best baseball team in the world, what's the greatest place to go on holiday on a budget, who makes the best mid-range mobile phones, which company bakes the best crumpets, and which console is the more powerful.
What if this Dice employee comments weren't about the Xbox but rather some racist rants that called for the extermination of non caucasians in Europe.
iroboto said:
There are only realistically consequences. Like this man received:... Should he be fired? This mans views clearly do not represent his company, but this company does not want to employ a man with these views.
Let's not overreach ourselves. The DICE employee isn't saying anything abusive or controversial. There's a world of difference between spreading hate and having an opinion (on a subject of no importance, contrary to console warriors emotional investment). I haven't said people should be allowed to voice opinions with no consequences. All I've called for is balance between the work place and personal lives, such that work doesn't take a controlling stake in one's social activities. If it becomes apparent that an employee isn't the right kind of employee (caught dealing drugs, say), the company has a right to terminate within the rules of employment (in the UK it's actually quite hard to fire people outright in principle). But they shouldn't stop people talking about everyday views in their own space. A Sony employee shouldn't face a disciplinary when they buy an LG TV from Amazon and press the Facebook notification, suggesting Sony themselves prefer other manufacturers devices. Casual conversation shouldn't be denied, nor held to a ridiculous level of scrutiny such that a person needs to pass everything they type past a lawyer before determining if someone might find it disagreeable (and
everything will be found disagreeable by someone somewhere!)[/quote]