Have you heard of neurolinguistic programming?
Truthfully yes but I'm clueless about it. I'm just working with shrinks and therapists to try to deal with it, fixing the root problems ain't going to be easy or fun, but me and my daughter are working on a secret plan to make it better.
In a month things will either be much better or at least off center and out in the open..we're doing an intervention thingy on my wife in family therapy next. I dread it but think it's way past time.
Sorry for starting with a flip comment and getting all serious like that. Things are just going so well for my daughter that she wants to fix the problems with the family rather than just dealing with it. Made me proud, and if she's up for it then how can I not support it?
She also talked me into it by pointing out that I was being a hypocrite by just tolerating the behavior rather than confronting it and dealing with it.
DI'd I mention that I am incredibly proud of my daughter and feel damned lucky to have her. My son is actually improving and getting more active since one family session, so we're going to keep tricking the two who are against therapy in to therapy under the guise of "it's to help Maddy", but the truth is those sessions are to slowly confront those two with some of their behaviors they have to change.
Sorry for the rant, just didn't want anyone to think I was out on a ledge or something, I'm not. Doing fine, I've handled a LOT worse than this and handling this is just part of the stay at home parent thing.
I actually have learned a ton about CBS and have been digging the concept and applying it to myself and my problems, and I'll be damned if it hasn't been helping me not only with myself but to better understand other people too. (which knowing me means it'll just improve my social engineering skills even more, sorry it's just how I am)
Again, sorry for the rant. Sitting here in her therapist's office posting things helps me avoid conversations with the people waiting, and there are too many Trump supporters around me to feel like I could talk without REALLY pissing someone off and I promised Maddy I'd behave here.