Humus,
It's encouraging to hear these wonderful stories about people who despite having everything against them were able to rise from the dirt and succeed. Unfortunately, they are the exception rather than the rule.
Yes I agree. I think we need to help people believe more in themselves. I think we need to instill in them that that can do what they want to do in life if they are willing to work
HARD for it. I would LOVE to see more work done in building people up, than propping them up with welfare.
Also, isn't it better with a system where you can get yourself up from the dirt easily than a system where you just can, though it's very hard for many people.
Ahh, a very interesting comment. You stated "While true, this arguments doesn't carry much weight for those who simply don't have the ability to make such an investment in the first place." I felt very passionate about the fact that there are many people that
simply don't have the ability to help themselves. If you feel that it is not hopeless and that all people can make a better life for themselves, but that you would prefer to make it as easier for them for some cost, then I understand much better where you are coming from. Of coarse I don't with to hold people down, I want people to realize that they are the masters of their own destiny. They don't
have to rely on someone else to succeed.
Again, I don't believe people when they say the poor are incapable of helping themselves. I don't believe don't believe people when they say that the poor have no hope of making a better life for themselves. I do not like words like
can't.
I do however wish it to be as easy as possible for poor people to succeed, as I believe you do. I just don't think that we agree on how do get that done. I do not believe in giving money to people that don't work for it (unless they are going hungry). I believe in education and job skill programs. I believe in much better schools than we have today. Show them that there is hope.
The harder it is to get up, the fewer will get up. It's that simple.
Very true, but I feel if you really
DO want it, you can have it.
What if the labor market changes btw? You may have made your decision to get wife and kids while you were attractive on the market. After a number of years your profession isn't asked for anymore.
This is called life my friend. There are no guarantees. This almost happened to my father as his R&D lab moved down to Colorado from Indiana. He choose not to move (note, I did not say his family forced him not to move, big difference) and lost his year and years of service. He tried to get on at the only other placed that needed someone with his credentials in town, but was also said he would go work at a lumber store if needed. He was fortunate and got he good job. He did not blame anyone for loosing his job. He did not expect society to help him find a new similar job. If you told him that society was in some part responsible to find him a new job in his field he would look at you like you were an alien.
He is a man,
he is responsible for himself and his family. (The same could be said for a woman, but my father is a man =p ). The point is he is responsible for himself, not society.
Is it good to have me more or less forced to work really hard for a long time to get up, rather than having the society aiding me in getting up and later on back as a productive worker?
Another very good comment. I think it highlights the difference between some of our thinking. (very cool stuff, if not a bit perplexing). If someone from society were to help out, then that would be a good thing, but it is in no way expected let alone required of a good society. It is just so very foreign to me to think that government has any responsibility to do so. I presume you are talking about more than an unemployment office that would just help me find a job.
Of course you are sacrificing loads of things when you decide to get kids and I've never said that this should not be the case. But it's definitely needed to ease parents situation to encourage more people to get kids. In Europe the expected length of life have increased to typically being around 80 years today, while in the US it is 73 IIRC. Consequently, the aging population poses a serious threat to the economy.
Wow, I had never once thought of it in that way (this is why I love discussing topics with people that think different than me, I stumble into new ways of thinking all the time.) Hmmm. Well, just a few thoughts off the top of my head. When I get old, I will be forced to keep working until I have enough money to retire on. (forced because I choose to make money to eat and pay bills). I don't really expect any handouts form the younger generations or the government to give me handouts, so I never thought that more children were needed.
We need more working people to carry the burden as these grow old.
How will I be a burden? I feel I am responsible for myself so therefore I need to take care of myself. Now, I do understand that many people today don't want to be responsible for themselves and I think that this needs to be changed somehow. I really don't have any good idea how to do that.
Anyway, I enjoyed your comments Humus.
Thanks for chatting,
Dr. Ffreeze