best friend's wife (uh-oh)

[Sage]

guys! I'm not gonna frikking sleep with her. jeez. i'd rather have her as a friend i can talk to and hang out with and all of that crap than boink her. They're both my best friend. Actually, only friends atm.

 

[_xxx_]

guys! I'm not gonna frikking sleep with her. jeez. i'd rather have her as a friend i can talk to and hang out with and all of that crap than boink her. They're both my best friend. Actually, only friends atm.

If you really think about it, you'll realize that that's a blatant lie. Don't persuade your self into that shit. Either you'll sleep with her, or stop seeing them both. Black or white, no other options.

 

[Sage]

If you really think about it, you'll realize that that's a blatant lie. Don't persuade your self into that shit. Either you'll sleep with her, or stop seeing them both. Black or white, no other options.

now why do you say that?

 

[digitalwanderer]

If you really think about it, you'll realize that that's a blatant lie. Don't persuade your self into that shit. Either you'll sleep with her, or stop seeing them both. Black or white, no other options.

I hate to say it, but the man is right. You can delude yourself that you're only going to see her as friends, but you know damned well where it is leading and you ain't the one leading it there so you ain't got no confrol over it.

Get yourself out of the situation, period.

 

[Sage]

she's not going to go there and neither am i. its called self-control. besides, its not like i see her every day. and pretty soon im going to be living like over an hour away from them and will be surrounded by hot girls so it wont be much of an issue then.

 

[3dilettante]

My advice is to kill her and your best friend. It's a radical solution, I know, but I think it will be for the best. Let me know how it works out.

Nuke the planet from orbit, it's the only way to be sure.

 

[_xxx_]

Amen. The ultimate solution.

 

[Sage]

but then i would never get laid again by anyone!!!!

 

[Druga Runda]

Amen. The ultimate solution.

the ultimate soplution is to go to Iraq and join the troops... as she will surely not go together with your former friend

 

[epicstruggle]

F*ck her. For the love of God, f*ck her for me! For meeeeee!!

I had a similar experience in the late 80s. Didn't turn out so well. Some stones are best left unturned.

Damn i need a good laugh. thanks.

epic

 

[digitalwanderer]

she's not going to go there and neither am i. its called self-control.

No, it's called a disaster waiting to happen.

 

[blakjedi]

Dont do it son. Do nt do it. Run dont walk away. Save yourself the hassle...and do it for yourself. SHE isnt worth it but YOU (probably) are.

 

[zurich]

Heheh reading the above. All I can think of is, "...and then there are gay people."

A few years back I got involved with this cute couple, Phil and Derek. They were real nice guys and kind of made you go "awwww" that they were relatively young, but pretty committed (this is rare amongst my people..).

Anyhow, we had a few hot and fun encounters, and boy, did Phil and I REALLY get along However, I started to notice that Phil was way more into me/"it" than Derek. It became pretty obvious that Derek wasn't too keen on the 3some idea and only went along with it for Phil. To make matters worse, Phil starts calling me, wanting to meet for lunch, etc. outside of the bedroom. Given the chemistry we had together, I was and wasn't surprised at the same time. The last thing I wanted to be was a homewrecker, so I quietly backed out of things with the both of them and made a white lie about having a boyfriend (hah, ironic eh?)

Self gratification is great and all - hell, at the end of the day you only have yourself - but shitting all over other people to get it is just not cool. Or to look at it another way, how would you feel if some asshole came in and wrecked your happy, peaceful existence?

 

[Sage]

shitting all over other people to get it is just not cool.

yup, that's why nothing is going to happen. i dont get why some people are telling me to go for it, there is no debate. its not gonna happen. no matter how badly i want it to, i will not do it and neither will she.

 

[digitalwanderer]

how would you feel if some asshole came in and wrecked your happy, peaceful existence?

And do you think it will make them crazy enough to kill you over? :|

(And no, I'm not joking one tiny little bit.)

 

[Sage]

how would you feel if some asshole came in and wrecked your happy, peaceful existence?

And do you think it will make them crazy enough to kill you over? :|

(And no, I'm not joking one tiny little bit.)

IM NOT GONNA SLEEP WITH HER!!!!!



geez people get it through your heads. its absolutely not gonna happen.

 

[digitalwanderer]

geez people get it through your heads. its absolutely not gonna happen.

Keep telling yourself that and doing what you're doing, I'm pretty sure you really almost believe it.

 

[Sage]

Keep telling yourself that and doing what you're doing, I'm pretty sure you really almost believe it.

yeah as long as i keep telling myself that then it wont happen.

 

[digitalwanderer]

yeah as long as i keep telling myself that then it wont happen.

If you honestly believe that then you ain't being truthful with yourself.

 

[Sage]

why are you so convinced that it will happen? its not like she's my only hope at getting laid, im about to be going to a womens college!!! And whats between us is not primarily sexual attraction.