Right, because that's OBVIOUSLY what we do! You solved the big mystery here!
No, the reality is I'm a full time college student with a part time job, so when I get the opportunity to game, I need to say "okay, on Thursday Nights I'm free, so let's see who I can get to play online". I don't just hop online on Thursday, and start spamming out game invites (that is a stigma, like it or not, of XBL). I know some of the people I'm going to hop online with, and from there maybe we will or won't get more folks.
As much as you don't "plan your life around gaming", I don't expect any of my friends to alter their plans or choices around my schedule.
The point is that what you are describing is just damn sorry.
My friends list contains people I want to play with, whom I've met while playing other games, or people on here that I maybe haven't played a lot with, but we can still get together sometimes to have a game.
I feel for you and your college status. But Live is so much easier it isn't even funny. I know the players that have the game. If they're online playing something else, all I have to do is a send out a party chat invite and I can lasso them all up together to play whatever other game it is I want.
And we can start the game while the others finish their games or get to a save spot so they can come and join us. In the meantime, we can all be talking about the game we're playing while 1 or 2 or 3 other people are playing their own individual games trying furiously to finish them up to join us.
I'm sorry, but you keep making excuses and saying that you have "work arounds" that enable you to do what those of us who use live can do without a second thought. Or a second computer, or a smart phone.
I mean.. for example, as I've been reading other things, I've suddenly become aware that there are alot of people out there that HATE Borderlands because they've had problems with the multiplayer aspect of the game. They're either PC gamers or PS3 users. I'll say it again: Borderlands worked FLAWLESSLY on Live. It was fully integrated, and if I wanted to play and one of my friends was playing something else, I could just send him an invite and BOOM, he's in the game. Or, if I'm playing with a group of friends and one of my other friends is on, he can JOIN my party and listen to us talk and scream and yell about what is happening while he's playing a completely different game.
Or, you can switch between Party chat and Game chat. So if you're playing a squad based FPS and you're the only one playing while all your friends are playing something else, you can switch back and forth between chatting with those numbnuts your'e playing with and your party of friends.
No, LIVE is what the Xbox is all about. LIVE is what MS wanted to create when they made the original xbox. It is a far superior content delivery system that really exceeds everything that Myspace or Facebook has to offer because it does so in REAL time.
PSN doesn't hold a candle to what Live is.