Actually there was some interesting info on ragdolls and such from Mad Max - the short story is that while the physics may be realistic, we've all been trained by the movement of movie stunt guys, and they're always moving very consciously to direct their movement and minimize risk of injury. Stuff like falling from a high point and making sure they land on their back. There's also a lot of wire work usually for safety reasons and other trickery which is always invisible because they can paint out everything in post. So for movies and video games as well, completely realistic may actually look totally off...