You mean like XBL ? Even MS admitted that their XBL user base is misbehaving and yet you managed to find 50 or so friends ? Like I said, it's up to you to make a difference.
Exactly -- it's exactly like XBL in that respect. Which is precisely why I think it's a terrible idea to put all of these people in one room with just one thing to do -- talk.
I stay away from random-player-games as much as possible, the idea of just being put in a room and having to just socialize with them is borderline terrifying for me...
There are people who misbehave in Home, there are great people too. In fact, Home has invisible (and visible) moderators to curb excessive behavior. The fundamental bottleneck here seems to be you, if you admitted that you take a long time to add friends.
I wouldn't describe myself as a bottleneck, but rather someone who is discerning.
I've got tons of games to play across the PS3, Xbox 360, Wii, PC, and DS...I really do not have the time or motivation to sift though mountains of anti-social teenagers on Home to find some intelligent 25+ year old people. I've no doubt some are out there, yourself included, I just don't have the time or motivation to find them. And I think this is another fundamental problem with Home, is that it assumes people are all willing to do that -- some will, most won't.
Sure, I assume they don't play any exclusive PS3 games
There are very few exclusive PS3 games worth playing online, sadly...most of the online gaming these days are in Call of Duty, Halo 3, Rock Band/GH, or Left 4 Dead.
Why not ? You don't play online games on PS3 and therefore you don't have a need
But this is the problem -- I would love to play games online on the PS3. I'd love to ditch the XBL subscription and play a free service, I'd love to play crossplatform games that are implemented better on the PS3, I'd love to play games on a quieter platform. The problem is, Sony's incompetence with the online system rules it out as an option for me. If the game is multiplatform, it's a 360 purchase. If they put effort into fleshing out the online system, it'd be a contender...but it's not.
Home doesn't need to exist yet. It should launch with the PS4. What they need now is a competently fleshed-out and functional and ubiquitous online gaming service.
You can send XMB messages to anyone in any (new enough) game. The only thing is it doesn't launch the game automatically for you. I get messages from LBP players when I'm in Resistance. Not sure what the big deal is.
You've said it here. It doesn't affect all games, it doesn't actually integrate with the games with game invites, and even then the message system is pretty limited (it doesn't do voice yet, does it?). Considering how painful it is to type on game consoles, I don't ever type -- ever. It's voice or nothing.