I don't get the obsession with 4k. On any tv set that is going to fit in a normal sized living room with people looking at it from a normal viewing distance its not going to make much, if any difference. Especially not with the pretty low bitrate offered by the likes of Netflix and Youtube. I rather have prettier pixels than more pixels in this case.
That depends on how much view angle you want to fill with your TV. For example, the 42" TV in my living room is ~5m from the sofa. People used to think that's big, especially when compared to my old 29" CRT TV, but now it looks small. Now, if you are going to double the view angle with a, say 80" TV, then you'll see why 4K makes sense in this situation.