Not including wavey Davey or expletive, neither of whom I know personally, but are on my xbl friend list, I have 7 people on my current xblive friend list who own an Xbox one. I see their updates daily. I have other friends from work etc., who bought the console. I had zero influence on their purchases. Hell I just met a cat at the barber shop yesterday who regaled me about the benefits of the Xbox one he just got himself for Christmas and he had no idea who I was or that I was a gamer too. He just liked the shit so much he talked about it. He's about 40 also.
Either I'm lucky (which I'm not) or you guys are looking at it all wrong.
The XBlive and PSN friend lists arent exactly the best unbiased sample to use for a statistical analysis