My girlfriend is a psychologist and I ran this past her and she tells me it very unusual for people to develop irrational fears of things with which they are familiar due to age. This isn't a normal or healthy change. Not wanting too still use or do things you used too, because there is a more appealing alternative, is something else.
I was born in 1971 and my parents embraced technology early on. We had an Atari 2600 then a Commodore 64, then a series of Commodores Amigas. When I moved out on my own around the age of 21, I bought a Gateway PC (I'd seen Half-Life) and learned how it worked then built and upgraded my next two PCs and then moved to Macs mostly for professional reasons.
While I still game on PCs (OS X and Windows under Bootcamp and Parallels) I've mostly gamed on consoles since the PlayStation appeared because, for the most part, it's a hassle-free box. When I was younger I had lots of time and little money so spending hours finding the cheapest parts for my next upgrade then spending a few hours disassembling, fitting a new motherboard and/or CPU, and reassembling the PC was not an issue. Now? Well frankly we have plenty of money but time is limited and therefore precious. Like a lot of people in this situation you look to find ways to reduce spending time doing mundane things so you can spend time doing the things your enjoy. Rather than fix something yourself you'll pay somebody to do it.
Because I game infrequently, I like that I don't have to think about updating the games and system software because the PS4 will do that when I'm not using it in low power mode. Resume/restore is a godsend for parents with young children. Some games work with the OSX/Windows sleep, many don't. Overtime I want to game on Windows I have a bunch of security fixes (and a restart or time), often a Steam client upgrade, plenty of Steam game updates.
That's all fine and dandy, and I was born 1971 as well. But none of that changes what advertisers already know, that younger people are more likely to try something whereas as you get older status quo becomes more normal. As you say, you feel a console is a hassle free box so you won't go back to pc even when someone like me tells you they haven't an issue on it in years. I'd never be able to convince you because, well, you're older and that's it, your experience is burned into your rom and that's that, there's no point in wasting anymore cycles trying to get you to go back to it. On the other hand I can easily get younger people to try pc gaming, they won't be scared of it.
If you Google "PS4 controller disconnects" just as if you Google almost anything, you'll get some thousands of hits. 31,000 PS4 controller disconnects (without checking how many are actually DS4's disconnecting from PS4s - actually looking at the results it seems to be a dozen people having issues) by pure Google stats is 31,000/22,000,000 == 0.14%. You can't expect hardware to be problem free, and 0.14% is clearly not a software nor incompatibility fault.
"PC Controller disconnects" in Google has 14,900,000 hits. Lots of people using controllers on their PC including 'official' MS XB360 ones and having issues.
If you don't understand what 14,900,000 hits for "PC controller disconnects" vs 31,000 hits for "PS4 controller disconnects" means and how those two search result highlight exactly the difference between gaming on console and PC, you never will. You'll just have to persist with the view that because you personally never issues, PC doesn't have issues any worse than consoles and those with experience to the contrary are plain misguided.
I never said pc has no issues. I said I never have issues on it, but I can understand that others might especially overclockers, people that hack game settings and so on. And by definition a fixed box should always be simpler than a variable one. However my point was that these things are less likely to scare away younger people, whereas guys like you and DSoup are done with it, in your mind pc gaming is forever burned in your heads as being one way and that's it. You are now more likely to believe anecdotal evidence supporting your claim than one that doesn't.
I think you guys are taking this personally. This really isn't anything new, as you get older you just become more resistant to change and less tolerant of trying new things. If that wasn't the case then every new product would target 50 year old people with their advertising since after all they are sitting on piles of money, yet instead they target the more cash starved younger people because they are the ones more likely to try x, y or z. In spite of you guys having more disposable income, you are still not the desirable audience.
I have had a PS4 since day one, my daughter has had a PS4 for a year - both PS4s get extensive use and not once have we had an issue.
PCs however are a daily occurance, be it the internet not working - things just going slow or an outdated driver. And I don't want to even start talking about the pain I went through to install a DJ mixing deck - using the supplied disk only to find out that didn't work so I had to download the latest driver - still no joy, so I used another laptop and hey presto! lol
I really scratch my head and wonder what in heck you guys are doing that gives you daily issues. I don't get it. Even my Macbook Pro that's been running Windows runs flawless for me. Man I would never be able to run my home business if I had y'alls issues. My machines just work, day in and day out. Are you guys maybe on Windows XP? You need to go to Windows 8, that version has worked flawless for me. Even the girls I work with, they aren't rocket scientists but they rarely have issues, unless a hdd dies or something like that. Ironically the only time I've heard them bitch and complain is on iPhones, especially on iOS8 which would fuck up regularly and they would have to reboot their phones. I think you guys are this bizarre extreme case where your machines are constantly failing on a daily basis and now you think that's what is considered normal on a pc is all about. It's not.