I will say that I've sunk many dozens of hours into games which I wanted to like, recent examples for me would be Witcher 3 (please don't murder me!) and No Mans Sky. I heard so many great things about Witcher 3, the open world, the deep characters, the RPG elements. Somehow it never grabbed me, and yet at the same time so many people whom I know enjoy good games really seemed to have nothing but great things to say about it. Yet, at the same time, I never once posted a bad review of it anywhere, and in fact mostly (this reply as another example) chalked it up to I somehow just do not enjoy the "harder core" RPGs like others do. That doesn't make it a bad game, it just turned out it wasn't my thing and that's OK.
No Mans Sky was harder... Talk about being promised a thing, and then being delivered something completely empty. What's crazy is, I dropped almost a hundred hours into that game early on when arguably it was in the worst state ever. Years and years later, I feel like they've worked hard to deliver on so many promises they initially failed to deliver, and arguably it's an incredibly better game now -- and yet, I haven't picked it up in years! Why? Because I somehow feel a little left behind; all the new mechanics seem so foreign to me now, it's nothing like it started. That doesn't mean it's a bad game, hell if anything it's now a good game, and yet the same as Witcher 3 to me: it doesn't really fit my style, and that's OK.
I guess all these words are really meant to reinforce @Silent_Buddha 's point: some self awareness could go a really long way for all the people decrying "lazy devs!" Everyone needs to own their part of the problem, or the problem will never go away.
No Mans Sky was harder... Talk about being promised a thing, and then being delivered something completely empty. What's crazy is, I dropped almost a hundred hours into that game early on when arguably it was in the worst state ever. Years and years later, I feel like they've worked hard to deliver on so many promises they initially failed to deliver, and arguably it's an incredibly better game now -- and yet, I haven't picked it up in years! Why? Because I somehow feel a little left behind; all the new mechanics seem so foreign to me now, it's nothing like it started. That doesn't mean it's a bad game, hell if anything it's now a good game, and yet the same as Witcher 3 to me: it doesn't really fit my style, and that's OK.
I guess all these words are really meant to reinforce @Silent_Buddha 's point: some self awareness could go a really long way for all the people decrying "lazy devs!" Everyone needs to own their part of the problem, or the problem will never go away.