Reverend said:
[url=http://www.hardforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=644163&perpage=15&pagenumber=5 said:
Kyle in his own forum, directed at me,[/url] ]
The page of my post at HardOCP to which Kyle replied :
Congrats on your first post with the mighty unwashed. It only took you over five years....funny that it should be about getting credit.
You can have all the credit. I will state here right here right now that B3DPolice are fully responsible for getting this issue fixed. I am glad to see that Dave solved this problem months ago......You can have 100% credit for it all, as I really don't care.
It is sad that you have let all your influence mean nothing in an industry that you could have truly helped shape. Anthony, you have truly wasted what could have been greatness in the industry on the likes of VE and B3. I can fully say you are one of the wasted talents in our industry that was bound for greatness and lost it to the disappointment of many.
Greatness...thrown away. It makes me sad to see such talent wasted on B3DPolice postings.
Is that a flame? Or a polite attack? Or a veiled compliment+attack? Are they all the same thing regardless of what it's called "flame", "attack" etc.)?
There are different ways to interpret a "flame". Most of the time, it depends on its effect on the target of the "flame". I did not take what Kyle said about me as a "flame" but I did take it as simply "inappropriate", especially given the fact that he is the owner of HardOCP, someone that everyone hopes would would react in a professional manner (I'll leave "maturity" out of it). I was rather surprised to receive an email from a ATI engineer who participates here who said that he felt Kyle's above response was "stooping too low" (just like when a different ATI engineer PM'ed me to ignore/please-excuse Doomtrooper in
his last post on this page... although I'll admit that some of my responses on this page directed at DT can be viewed as a "flame/attack/whatever" at him). However, what Kyle said is not a big deal to me, even if most of you may look at it the same way as the ATI engineer who emailed me.
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[edit]John, please excuse me for re-opening the thread... I think if we can define what constitutes a "flame", it may help us out. Feel free to lock this (again) if/when this thread doesn't help our forums
Rev, I'm only commenting on this because you brought it up above, and you asked for opinions on what constitutes a flame. (I'll try to brief, honestly...
).
I agree with you that what Kyle said here is not a flame. However, I think it's a personal insult. I absolutely see nothing complimentary about it at all, veiled or otherwise. Here's how it looked to me:
First, as I recall he didn't actually answer the question you put forth when he responded as he did. Instead, in the first paragraph he throws off on what he calls the "B3d Police" and says he never cared about "the issue" in the first place. Apparently, this is his justification for not answering your question.
Secondly, completely out of context, he basically tells you that you are all washed up, have no "influence" [a mirror into his own thinking about himself and what sort of influence he believes he has], have done nothing to help "shape" the industry [again, a veiled reference into his opinions about what he is "shaping"], and last he accuses you of a "greatness" which you have "thrown away" by virtue of the web sites with which you work, specifically something called the "B3d Police"--an organization of which I have never heard (but have no trouble figuring out.) Basically, he's said that if you worked for [H] you'd be on top of the world instead of currently residing nowhere in it, as he characterizes your position, as far as he's concerned. (*chuckle*--It's such silliness, really.)
I don't think you should be "surprised" that you got an email as you did from a sympathetic ATi engineer after reading those comments. I felt much the same way after reading them as he did. I think many other people who saw it did, too. If I was going to say something like that to someone I knew, I would never say it in a public forum. First of all, your comments in the thread did not remotely call for that kind of response. What is apparent to me is that this was Kyle's way of discrediting you, and B3d, in front of [H] forum members in the hopes they would ignore whatever it was you might have to say, either in the [H] forums, or after being banned there, in the B3d forums later on. I imagine this kind of conduct might be what Kyle means by "shaping" and "having influence" in the industry.
Considering that you know the guy personally, I can understand why it might not bother you much at all and why you might find it sort of funny...if not hilarious...
Just more infantile blabber of the type you have no doubt become accustomed to in that venue. I can definitely understand how you might see it that way....But to those of us who don't know the guy, it's hard to see anything there but a completely rancid insult that was wholly uncalled for. So try not to be surprised by how people who don't know either of you personally see such comments. Seriously, his comments had no place on a public forum. As far as I'm concerned he broke his own forum rules when he made those comments about you and the B3d website in general. And banning you guys? That cannot be overlooked, at least on my part. Kyle could change my mind and I'm sure a lot of others with an honest, well-written apology, which I've always been receptive to
and had hoped I might see by now.
Oh, yea...I don't see that you and Doom breaking chairs over each other's heads in a B3d thread is even close to the same thing....
And sincerely--pardon me if this is not the kind of response you were asking for. But you did ask for one...
My own position on Kyle and [H] is that I'm sick of talking about it. Everything that could and should be said has been said. When and if Kyle at [H] has his objectivity about nVidia restored and he can shine the same investigative light on nVidia that he has shined on ATi in the past, I think all of these things will vanish into the ethereality as quickly as they appeared.