It seems to me that Futuremark have made it quite clear that 3dmark2003 is for Dx9 Hardware and that for Dx8, hardware reviewers should be using 3DMark2001.
Assuming this then there can be no argument that 3dMark2003 is not relevant to real gaming benchmarks as there are no Dx9 games out yet.
Did anyone complain about the Nature test in 3dmark2001, especially since there have still not been any games out yet that match anything seen in that benchmark!
Did anyone say that it was unfair because it exploited Dx8 and advanced Dx7 features that were not well supported in current games?
nVidia have to accept that their cash cows are not going to cut it in the new generation of hardware, and take the criticism and move forward. All great people or organisations look for any opportunity to learn and move forward (after all, that's why they got so good in the first place!). nVidia are no different. They are a fantastic company with great talent, results and potential. I pray that they do not let marketing pride get in the way of the advancement that they are so well known for.
Todays informed consumers are not going to accept marketing as well today as they did two years ago. Live by the sword, take a hit by the sword and move on!
(Edit: bad grammar. I am a colonial after all
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