Breaking up

london-boy: Dude, sorry to hear about the troubles with everything. :(

Like you said it gets better. Psycho girlfriends/boyfriends just arn't worth it man.

Just think, now you can act out those outlandinsh hetrosexual fantasies in the other thread by getting drunk and screwing a girl in a night of ill-concieved passion! :LOL:

Nite_Hawk
 
london-boy said:
Well, i'm recently single, as of last night. Just couldn't take it anymore, the mind games, the indifference, the lack of respect. Nothing.
A friend of mine died on monday. With all the subsequent unwellness attached to losing a friend, and seeing my best friend being in a very bad state because of this.
The guy kept doing his thing, his not-calling-not-even-texting thing, even when he knew i needed to talk to someone, i needed to let some steam off.
As a person, not even as a boyfriend or a friend. As a person he should have at least made the effort to see how i was doing. Instead he just kept ignoring me, thinking that it would magically make the pain go, that it would magically sort our already-old problems out.
That was the last straw. I deserve better in my life, and we obviously are not meant to be together. He obviously is not meant to be with anyone. Instead of honestly telling me that he couldn't handle a serious relationship, he got both of us into this, and decided that the "ignoring approach" would miraculously sort things out.

Well, it's over. Danny's single again. Planet Earth beware. No one's safe anymore.

Just one question. Does it get better? The feeling in your chest? U know the one. I mean i shouldn't ask, it's not like i haven't been through this already...

(Natoma, PMs aint working for some reason, and, well, this is my PM to u)
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Tomo's an ass. I'm just sorry it took this for you to realize what emotional abuse he was putting you through. It's about time frankly. You definitely deserve someone better.
 
Well if Nat thinks it's a good thing, I think I'm all for it. (Sorry LB, I haven't been keeping as close a tabs on your love life as I reckon I should have. :oops: )

If it helps any LB you're a hell of a lot better off out of a bad relationship than in one. I've sort of been where you're at before and it sucks for a while, but the pain does fade and life does go on.

You never know what's gonna come next, but I guarantee you if you wait long enough something will. 8)
 
Nite_Hawk said:
getting drunk and screwing a girl in a night of ill-concieved passion! :LOL: Nite_Hawk
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"concieved"? Why does "La cage aux folles"/"BirdCage" come to mind?
 
Thanks guys, as everyday goes by, it feels a bit better. I do miss him. I miss the "first version", before he changed and started neglecting everything, me, his friends, his job... Tomo 2.0 was an ass, Tomo 1.0 was a great guy.
 
london-boy said:
Thanks guys, as everyday goes by, it feels a bit better. I do miss him. I miss the "first version", before he changed and started neglecting everything, me, his friends, his job... Tomo 2.0 was an ass, Tomo 1.0 was a great guy.
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Ah..
Know the feeling..
People grow apart.
Some grow into complete asses, some just keep trying..

I fell into the last category, and I'm still recovering from the break-up.
The pain fades, but stay out of his way, and make a life for yourself in which he does not need exist. Helps keep the pain he may create away..

Good luck with returning to singlehood, catch up with old or neglected friends and start over. Sleep well.


Kjetil
 
well london boy. I normaly get a few jugs of johnny walker black label drink up and go to strip clubs for a week or two.

after that i find any girl thats into me and have a bunch of sex .

Then hang out with my sisters while they boost my ego by telling me how much they hate the ex and what a bitch she was.

Normaly i'm good after that
 
jvd said:
well london boy. I normaly get a few jugs of johnny walker black label drink up and go to strip clubs for a week or two.

after that i find any girl thats into me and have a bunch of sex .

Then hang out with my sisters while they boost my ego by telling me how much they hate the ex and what a bitch she was.

Normaly i'm good after that
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Well thats the thing, i usually fuck my way through the pain. I fuck the pain away. First guy i find, he's done for months... But this time it's like, i dont even have the interest. Maybe i'm getting old...

Being with my friends helps a lot. Now i just surround myself with my friends and it feels a bit better. Until i get home and the bed is empty.
 
i normaly have no intrest in going out and getting laid. Its just a quick ego boost. Sorta like . Well you bitch you don't want me but these sluts want me .

Kinda dumb. But when your drunk ony johnny walker it makes sense :)


Anyway natoma is a smart dude (doesn't know how to shave though) if he thinks this guy was an ass forget about him .
 
jvd said:
i normaly have no intrest in going out and getting laid. Its just a quick ego boost. Sorta like . Well you bitch you don't want me but these sluts want me .

Kinda dumb. But when your drunk ony johnny walker it makes sense :)


Anyway natoma is a smart dude (doesn't know how to shave though) if he thinks this guy was an ass forget about him .
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Well, Natoma got the whole soap opera story from day 1, so he knows the crap i've taken...
It's just... I'm desperate to settle down, i might be young and all, but i seriously have had enough of casual things, it just seems there is no one out there for me.

Oh well i'm only talking like this cause it's fresh and i'm upset-y, i'll get a grip eventually.
 
just hang out with your friends . Go do something diffrent , change it all up . Works best that way
 
jvd said:
just hang out with your friends . Go do something diffrent , change it all up . Works best that way
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And YES natoma, u told me ages ago, but u know it's not easy. And i will have to really get a grip and try not to take him back if/when he tries, cause i do miss him a lot. But i have to resist, cause he can say he can change, things will be better and all, but in the end we all know what that means...

Still want a Gmail account? Got 1 invitation left.
 
Kaizer said:
london-boy said:
Thanks guys, as everyday goes by, it feels a bit better. I do miss him. I miss the "first version", before he changed and started neglecting everything, me, his friends, his job... Tomo 2.0 was an ass, Tomo 1.0 was a great guy.
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Ah..
Know the feeling..
People grow apart.
Some grow into complete asses, some just keep trying..

I fell into the last category, and I'm still recovering from the break-up.
The pain fades, but stay out of his way, and make a life for yourself in which he does not need exist. Helps keep the pain he may create away..

Good luck with returning to singlehood, catch up with old or neglected friends and start over. Sleep well.


Kjetil
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Wow, I used to be all sensitive and caring and such like that when I was younger.. what the hell happened to me? :?

They say a man's personality solidifies/reaches peak maturity by 25, so I guess I only have 2 more years to recover :p
 
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