If it's about tone, half the people I debate with are total jerks in that respect, and I can't believe anyone who has seen the console board could ever dispute that. Of course, the people I debate with have very high rep and are very senior members. Me on the other hand, seem to get slammed with "too many generations" and "FUD" even though nothing I said could be construed as either. And that "enough fanboyism" charge sounds like the person giving to me had too much fanboyism.
So if you're expecting me to give you a lockdown solid case, I won't. I can't say that there are plenty of people more rude and more of a jerk than I every was, and these people have very high reputations. If you won't fix this rep abuse, you should abandon negative rep all together. Negative rep seems to be doled out solely because they other disagreed with me and didn't like the way it was told to them.