CosmoKramer
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This thread is a sad testimony of the state of the world...
Natoma said:Then I suppose you should start with yourself and your family. Clean your own house first before telling others to clean theirs. Isn't that the christian way?
Btw, It's not illegal in Massachusetts for gays and lesbians to get married now.
It's not illegal in NY for us to cohabitate with one another. It's not illegal for anyone in the US to engage in any sex that is not vaginal.
Hmm. Does that mean my bf and I are not sinners then since we haven't broken the law anywhere? I suppose we were sinners before the Supreme Court issued it's ruling on Sodomy Laws in this country. But now, definitely not.
Joe DeFuria said:Natoma said:Then I suppose you should start with yourself and your family. Clean your own house first before telling others to clean theirs. Isn't that the christian way?
Um, we are. That's why we're a Christian household. Because it's a continuous cleaning process. We are never totally clean (sinless), and in fact always far from it. I'm not telling anyone else to "clean up", nor am I claiming to be "clean". I'm giving my opinion on what constitututes "clean."
Understand?
Again, you seem to display a lack of understanding of Christians / Christian values.
Joe DeFuria said:Btw, It's not illegal in Massachusetts for gays and lesbians to get married now.
I believe it is, at least for another 6 months. I'll have to check, but the current law is that marriage is only between one man and one woman. And I don't think the current law is actually negated for another 6 months.
Joe DeFuria said:It's not illegal in NY for us to cohabitate with one another. It's not illegal for anyone in the US to engage in any sex that is not vaginal.
And?
Joe DeFuria said:Hmm. Does that mean my bf and I are not sinners then since we haven't broken the law anywhere? I suppose we were sinners before the Supreme Court issued it's ruling on Sodomy Laws in this country. But now, definitely not.
Eh? Christian Sin is not the same thing as legal law...I thought that was obvious?
Natoma said:By biological design, senior citizens cannot reproduce as a couple. Put two penises together, and there will not be reproduction, EVER. Put two vaginas together, and there will not be reproduction, EVER. Put a senior male and a senior female together, and there will not be reproduction, EVER.
So yea, how was that defense again?
Yes. You believe that gay people marrying would "lessen" society. They believe interracial people marrying would "lessen" society. They're both short sighted and close minded ways of thinking.
You act as if there are so many problems today and there weren't any back then.
And dual income homes are a bad thing?
How would you explain the fact that our economy has been able to grow by leaps and bounds over the past few decades?
In large part because nearly 100% of the population has been engaged in the work force, as opposed to 50%
I'm beginning to realize that that is probably the key difference between liberals and conservatives. Conservatives think that any change in the status quo will destroy society...
They didn't think their cause was wrong. In fact they felt just as strongly as you do that society would end, or be "lessened", if marriage was tampered with.
You have no proof whatsoever that society is any better or worse today than it was 50 years ago.
I've shown that society is certainly no worse today than it was 50 years ago.
Conservative thought process? Damn it all to hell and deal with the problems later. See Iraq as prime example #1.
Natoma said:I understand christian values completely. I grew up deeply christian, in a deeply christian household, family, and environment. Hell I went to catholic school!
The Mass. Supreme Court nullified that law when they said that it was unconstitutional did it not? If I read the ruling correctly, they stated that the legislature has 6 months to create a law or change the current laws to take gays and lesbians into account.
Again, you said replace sin with "Devoid of those who break the law". Now as far as this country is concerned, the only law that matters is secular.
Joe DeFuria said:Just saw this:
Natoma said:Btw Joe, I noticed you didn't respond to this question I asked you earlier. I don't know if you're responding to my last post, so instead of editing it, I'll just repost it.
Natoma said:Ok let's simplify this then. Do you agree, yes or no, that equally-committed-as-their-heterosexual-counterpart gay and lesbian couples should be able to enjoy the same legal benefits in the eyes of the law?
Actually, I can't answer a simple "yes or no", because, personally, I think they should be entitled to some of the same benefits married couples receive, but not necessarily all.
For example, adopting children is one such area, and admitedly, a very difficult one to come to grips with. All things being equal, I don't think homosexual couples should have the same rights / access as heterosexual couples. IMO, Hetersoexual couples should be given preferential treatment. To be clear, I don't think homosexual couples should be barred from adopting, but I do think for example (again, all else being equal), legal adoption preferences should be
1) Heterosexual married couple
2) Homosexual "union" couple
3) Any single parent.
Joe DeFuria said:I believe you stated yes to this question in a prior thread, but I'd like you to say it once more for the record.
I don't think I stated yes to everything, but I could be wrong. If I did, then I changed my mind.
However, what I'm sure I did say, is that I have no problem with states deciding for themselves what rights they wish to grant or not grant to same sex couples. And I'm sure I said that such legal rights should be granted through civil unions, not "marriages." That is, marriage is one type of civil union, but all civil unions are not marriages.
Natoma said:But anyways, that's not denying rights to gay couples per se.
It's a fudge to be sure, but what I'd like to know is, are there any rights that you would flat out deny to gay couples?
So as I said before, it's a matter of semantics, not the rights.
Natoma said:Oh god, it's the guy who first said there was no difference (not even your "on different levels" bit joe) between beastiality and homosexuality.
Vince, you were discredited a long time ago. Move along.
Natoma said:Oh god, it's the guy who first said there was no difference (not even your "on different levels" bit joe) between beastiality and homosexuality.
Vince, you were discredited a long time ago. Move along.
Consent? Social bonding?Vince said:Infact, I still ask, "If you remove the concept of procreation or genetic information reproduction from Sex - what differentiates Sex with another member of the same species from, say, an animal or entity?"
Joe DeFuria said:Natoma said:Oh god, it's the guy who first said there was no difference (not even your "on different levels" bit joe) between beastiality and homosexuality.
Vince, you were discredited a long time ago. Move along.
Oh God, Natoma is bringing up Beastiality again! I was wondering how long it would take.
Stay a while Vince....oh, and have some of my pop-corn.
1. And where by chance did you acquire this notion americans live in fear of racism other than your euro media?
2. why deal you feel that Joe is somehow bigotted against gays?
To be fairly precise, I think homosexul relationships are sinful.
do you think the world would be a better place everonye on this planet obeyed the law?
If so, does that mean you think all law-breakers should have no rights, should be killed, executed, exiled...etc?
arjan de lumens said:Consent? Social bonding?
And would this mean that heterosexual sex with a condom or other contraception is morally equivalent with beastiality?
Joe DeFuria said:Natoma said:By biological design, senior citizens cannot reproduce as a couple. Put two penises together, and there will not be reproduction, EVER. Put two vaginas together, and there will not be reproduction, EVER. Put a senior male and a senior female together, and there will not be reproduction, EVER.
Sigh...
At some time in the senior's life the senior was capable of reproduction, and in a heterosexual relationship, was capable of conceiving a child.
At some time in the homosexual's life, the homosexual was capable of reproduction, but incapable of conceving a child in a homosexual relatoinship.
Joe DeFuria said:So yea, how was that defense again?
Do we really, REALLY, have to go back and forth again for about the 5th time on this? (Next comes the "but what if someone is sterile"...to which I respond about being HEALTHY, etc...)
Joe DeFuria said:I really do not understand how you just won't accept the factual, biological difference in general between homosexual, and heterosexual relatoinships. This is not a mystery.
Joe DeFuria said:Yes. You believe that gay people marrying would "lessen" society. They believe interracial people marrying would "lessen" society. They're both short sighted and close minded ways of thinking.
I also believe that easy, "no fault" divorces would lessen society. Is that short sighted and closed minded too?
Joe DeFuria said:You act as if there are so many problems today and there weren't any back then.
Um, No. I'm simply saying that it's DEBATABLE that societal "structure" has improved or worsened over time.
Joe DeFuria said:And dual income homes are a bad thing?
Um, it could certainly be argued, yes. Are you saying that having one stay-at-home parent is definitely worse than having none?
Joe DeFuria said:How would you explain the fact that our economy has been able to grow by leaps and bounds over the past few decades?
Ah, so here you are mixing "the economy" with "better societal structure." (That's a big liberal no-no, btw....you should know better.) On what do you base a "growing economy" with "better societal structure?"
Joe DeFuria said:If we all worked 200 hours a week per dual household, gave up our kids to "professional care givers" while we all did so, and made lots of money with a booming economy....is that better than a household that works 40 hours a week, has less money (and contributes less economically to society), but spends more direct time raising their kids?
Joe DeFuria said:In large part because nearly 100% of the population has been engaged in the work force, as opposed to 50%
And SHOCK, that very fact is often cited as a PROBLEM for the social structure, not a benefit.
Joe DeFuria said:I'm beginning to realize that that is probably the key difference between liberals and conservatives. Conservatives think that any change in the status quo will destroy society...
Wrong.
Or should I say that liberals believe that change is required for the sake of change and nothing else?
Joe DeFuria said:They didn't think their cause was wrong. In fact they felt just as strongly as you do that society would end, or be "lessened", if marriage was tampered with.
Natoma. YOU have said that marriage is "key" to society. WHAT DO YOU THINK is a "threat" to that sanctity?
So if I now say that interracial marriages are bad....then hey, you should support that as "heck, who cares if we "tamper" with marriage?"
Joe DeFuria said:You have no proof whatsoever that society is any better or worse today than it was 50 years ago.
Nor do you, hence, my point that you haben't shown anything.
Joe DeFuria said:I've shown that society is certainly no worse today than it was 50 years ago.
No, you have not. You have made a "case" that economically we are better of. Not that society or societal "structure" is better off. (And further, you have not proven that we are better of econoimcally either.)
Joe DeFuria said:Conservative thought process? Damn it all to hell and deal with the problems later. See Iraq as prime example #1.
As opposed to the "damn it all to hell and deal with Iraq later"? How come the liberals were all arguing to just leave the Iraq situation "all status quo"? I thought that was a "conservative thing?"
london-boy said:what is this, secondary school or something??
Joe said:To be fairly precise, I think homosexul relationships are sinful.
london-boy said:little quote to make little joe happy.
OF COURSE this planet would be a better place if everyone followed the law.
The Law is not perfect, but if it was, this place would be a better place if everyone followed its rules.
For one, i don't think there should be any kind of law telling people what to and what not to do in their bedroom as long as they are consentual individuals.
And i don't need people who follow a book written by bigots 2000 years ago....
on a sidenote, just to clear things up, since i got the impression Joe thinks i'm some kind of lunatic,
yes, i think this marriage thing IS garbage but that is MY OWN personal view on MARRIAGE as a whole. Personally i don't support marriage either straight or gay. That was not what i was discussing at the beginning of the thread. I think 2 persons should live their lives together...
Vince said:Natoma said:Oh god, it's the guy who first said there was no difference (not even your "on different levels" bit joe) between beastiality and homosexuality.
Actually, this view has been expressed in several circles. You just fail to allow yourself to comprehend it. Rep. Rick Santorum recently questioned what is the bound on what constitutes marriage and how it related to sex.
Infact, I still ask, "If you remove the concept of procreation or genetic information reproduction from Sex - what differentiates Sex with another member of the same species from, say, an animal or entity?"
Any serious discussion of this topic will need to differentiate, on a fundimantal level, life from other entities/constructs. And although this is an evolving area of knowledge, it's safe to say that the ability to replicate (as Dawkins termed it) is a fundimental tenet of life. Fast forward 2Billion years and the same can be said in the natural world. To deny that the ability to reproduce and the system that nature has evolved to enable us to reproduce (eg. Seperate sex's with distinct [genetic] transmission material and seperate physiological features to facilitate this) is a fundimantal constant in our lifecycle... is insane.
It's on the same scale as denying Darwinian Evolution.