Love + friendship = problems...

I promised an update, so...

Nothing happened with the girl I was talking about. She kinda totally isolated herself from everyone in the last few weeks and I'm also fed up with waiting as well.

But: I met another wonderful girl and she is fortunately 100% normal and very spontaneous. So that's where the music plays now :D
 
If you really do like her as a friend, then it is time to be brutally honest with her and let the chips fall where they may. Tell her, and your desire not to mess up the relationship by going the wrong way, and the signals you think you're getting from her, and let it go from there. Basically, the "sh*t or get off the pot" speech, cause you're really fucking with my mind, and I have enuf faith in our relationship as friends to believe you aren't doing it on purpose.

On the other hand, if she is a close friend. . .have you told her about the other girls over the last year? Part of her hesitation is she may have you pegged as a love 'em and leave 'em type, and therefore is herself unwilling to lose the friendship over a few rounds of "hide the sausage".

Edit: Heh, missed the last one. Glad you managed to get over your heartbreak. ;)
 
The new lady makes them all look bad, she really is a cutie :D

And she's also of the more "open" kind, very straight-forward and spontaneous. She's a teacher(primary school), that's something completely new to me. I always thought of teachers as evil, old witches but am beginning to change my opinion now ;)
 
_xxx_ said:
I promised an update, so...

Nothing happened with the girl I was talking about. She kinda totally isolated herself from everyone in the last few weeks and I'm also fed up with waiting as well.

But: I met another wonderful girl and she is fortunately 100% normal and very spontaneous. So that's where the music plays now :D
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tsk, tsk.... impatient one you are?:mrgreen:
 
Humus said:
Don't suddenly send an email pouring out your entire heart's content, like I did ... :oops: Which leads to the next lesson, don't use email. It's a horribly bad medium to communicate emotions.
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You should have made her a demo.
 
silence said:
that is your dark side talking.:LOL:
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No, the dark side would have used the opportunity to have sex with HER best friend, which really tried hard to seduce me last weekend (probably just for competition, you know how women are in that regard). Obviously, I didn't...
 
_xxx_ said:
No, the dark side would have used the opportunity to have sex with HER best friend, which really tried hard to seduce me last weekend (probably just for competition, you know how women are in that regard). Obviously, I didn't...
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ya,ya...excuses.... (ma zajebancija ;) )
 
_xxx_ said:
The new lady makes them all look bad, she really is a cutie :D

And she's also of the more "open" kind, very straight-forward and spontaneous. She's a teacher(primary school), that's something completely new to me. I always thought of teachers as evil, old witches but am beginning to change my opinion now ;)
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Em... would it be too much to ask for a photo or render of both ladies. Just so we can help you identify who the witch is. Afterall they are known to change shape and form. :)
 
Have no photos. The first one is a small blue-eyed curly blonde gothic, 21, student, looks very much like Scarlett Johansson. The new one is a tall hardbody brunette with looooooong legs, 26, teacher. Enough to make your own picture, I think... :)
 
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I like porn regardless, mostly watched it together with the GF. Nothing to do with real life. Also as a side effect, girls are mostly somewhat curious about some of the more "exotic" stuff happening there and sometimes they want to try some new stuff after watching, so... ;)
 
_xxx_ said:
I like porn regardless, mostly watched it together with the GF. Nothing to do with real life. Also as a side effect, girls are mostly somewhat curious about some of the more "exotic" stuff happening there and sometimes they want to try some new stuff after watching, so... ;)
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heh.... you noticed "playfull" part?....
what you think i meant.... she doesnt mind new stuff at all.... ;)
 
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