You should look up SHDSL Gbond.
I don't have a router either.
I have a DSLAM.
I run DSLAM to DSLAM to our core network...and I have 2ms ping in DK...3-4ms to sweeden...~100ms to New York (damn you speed of light!!!)
20 MS sounds like a lantency above ADSL (~10ms) infact it sounds like ADSL2+ (20-35ms)...but no where near SHDSL lantency.
EDIT:
From my SHDSL Gbond
Code:
Pinger [URL="http://www.tm.se/"]www.tm.se[/URL] [84.243.62.13] med 32 byte data:
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=4ms TTL=55
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=4ms TTL=55
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=4ms TTL=55
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=4ms TTL=55
From my ADSL2+ line
Code:
Pinger [URL="http://www.tm.se/"]www.tm.se[/URL] [84.243.62.13] med 32 byte data:
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=29ms TTL=54
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=29ms TTL=54
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=29ms TTL=54
Svar fra 84.243.62.13: byte=32 tid=29ms TTL=54