I have a boyfriend!
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Oh, I wasn't thinking of killing myself over a failed relationship....more over an entirely failed life._xxx_ said:
I have had more than my share of busted relationships that have ran the gamut from me screwing 'em up to a betrayel where it was literally me walking in on her with a good friend of mine that totally blindsided me. I swore off women and was celibat for about 3 years after one nasty break up, but the heart is a tough little monkey and given time will heal if you let it.
The trick is to be willing to take a chance at getting hurt again, that gets harder and harder to do after a while...but you gotta.
digitalwanderer said:I was living under a bridge for a couple of weeks debating if I should kill myself or not every night just before I met my wife, I do know what you mean.
Rock-bottom and with no damned reason in the world to keep going except this stupid, stubborn, and annoying little voice inside me that kept telling me to just hold on a little longer even though it all was totally hopeless.....I've learned since then to always listen to that stupid, stubborn, and annoying little voice more often and me life has been a lot better for doing so.
Gee dig that's more bottom than... a bottom.
_xxx_ said:
You think the women you've dated don't feel the same way?
LB, I'm hurt. If you were going to go after an older man you could've let me know.
John Reynolds said:You think the women you've dated don't feel the same way?
LB, I'm hurt. If you were going to go after an older man you could've let me know.
I've tried hard enough with you, you just wouldn't let Natoma go for me!! You don't know what u missed!!
Yeah, but it does go a long way towards explaining why I'm such a happy guy who loves life so bloody much...don't it?london-boy said:
Pretty simple, I am and I do.
Y'know K-Y just came out with a self-warming massage lotion/personal lubricant, highly recomended.John Reynolds said:
digitalwanderer said:Y'know K-Y just came out with a self-warming massage lotion/personal lubricant, highly recomended.
KY is pure crap!
What massage lotion/personal lubricant do you recomend? Heck, I'm always game for that kind of product testing and I consider you a bit of an expert on the subject.london-boy said:
KY is pure crap!
digitalwanderer said:What massage lotion/personal lubricant do you recomend? Heck, I'm always game for that kind of product testing and I consider you a bit of an expert on the subject.
Silicon based stuff is much better. water-based stuff tends to dry out eventually, get sticky and painful, if not dangerous... Oil based stuff is good too, though a pain to take off.
I didn't think the silicon based stuff was water soluable though, that's what I like about KY...you can just shower and it's gone.london-boy said:
Drying out isn't so much a problem though in my situation, I just like the massage/lubricant stuff because I can use a backrub as an excuse/prelude now and get away with it everytime.
That alone makes KY okey-dokey in my book!
digitalwanderer said:I didn't think the silicon based stuff was water soluable though, that's what I like about KY...you can just shower and it's gone.
Drying out isn't so much a problem though in my situation, I just like the massage/lubricant stuff because I can use a backrub as an excuse/prelude now and get away with it everytime.
That alone makes KY okey-dokey in my book!
Yes silicone and oil based stuff are a right pain to get off your skin, but i think they're more than worth the trouble... just means u need to scrub 'em off a bit more, though you'll still have a slight slippery feel even after washing them out...
Cheers to you! I've always gone for the older guys myself too. I'm sure someone, somewhere, has written an exhaustive study on how gay men tend to gravitate towards those older/yonger than themselves, but whatever! Where are the pics?!???
OT: my beau is cute as a button!
OT: my beau is cute as a button!
MuFu said:OH MY GOD YOU'RE ACTUALLY GAY!!!
Yeah sorry... Those "show me pics of you so i can help you with your weight training" conversations we had were totally for my personal pleasure!!!
Hehehe well ok i didn't do it with MuFu, but you can ask around... cough*SY*cough...
HEY it was a mutual understanding, and well he will always thank me for his new body. Bit like he had plastic surgery.
And in exchange i got free half naked pics!! Perfect!!
HEY it was a mutual understanding, and well he will always thank me for his new body. Bit like he had plastic surgery.
And in exchange i got free half naked pics!! Perfect!!
sytaylor said:See, I always KNEW you were a real life troll!!!
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