I'm not going to get further involved in this, but...
One, there is nothing magical about frame syncing that REQUIRES it to be unbalanced *for balanced workloads*. Obviously if the game doesn't balance stuff on purpose as an optimization, then it's often impossible - but that isn't the main case we are talking about here. However, I think it is true that there may be hardware limitations that prevent syncing from being ideally balanced.
Two, saying it's unreasonable to make a big deal out of this is wrong. Not only is it reasonable to do so, but it is necessary, because reviewers in general never talk about the disadvantages of AFR. They just put a 9600 GT SLI right next to a 8800 Ultra and compare FPS scores directly as if they were comparable. They are not! Comparing 2-way SLI vs 2-way SLI or 2-way CrossFire numbers is fair. Comparing a GX2 card to a single-chip monolithic card is not unless you insist sufficiently about the disadvantages of AFR. The same goes for Hybrid SLI/CrossFire (the performance aspects, not the power saving ones), which is an absolute disgrace once you start taking latency & syncing into consideration.
I agree with Chris that it doesn't seem to be such a big deal to SLI and CrossFire users in general. It'd be very nice to improve it, and I could never suggest a SLI rig to someone until it was - but honestly, I wouldn't even worry too much about that part. What I would worry about is how usual it has become to compare configurations with different levels of AFR (no AFR, 2-way AFR, 3-way AFR, or 4-way AFR) and do as if the FPS numbers were actually equivalent. That's obviously so wrong it's not even funny.
So yeah, in conclusion: it's worth making a big deal ut of this, let alone to be able to humiliate everyone at NV and AMD who thought Hybrid SLI/CrossFire via AFR would be a good idea. It is, in fact, an incredibly stupid idea. However, when Dell proposes (or at least proposed) CrossFired 2600 XTs on a bunch of their configs, you can see where the OEM appeal is - that doesn't mean it should be encouraged though. Quite on the contrary, it should just be fought even more vigorously as a consequence.