Should I?

wireframe said:
_xxx_ said:
Sure I would love to, but I'm in a conflict with my conscience. It's really not that easy for me.
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So, you haven't done this sort of thing before?


...then how can you know that your conscience is not just setting off false alarms because it fears the unknown?

Worst that can happen is you lose your lifelong friend over terrible sex that would have been much better saved for the imagination....

...Oh, I hope you are of drinking age.
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It's exactly the unknown I fear. Never did anything like this before. I always had girls which were "strangers" to me before.

She's also a good, old friend of mine. Over the last year we spent much time together (me and my ex and these two) and she witnessed our sexual escapades from the next room (it was always quite wild and loud, my ex was a sexual addict just like me), that's why she wants it - she desperately needs some serious action which she never got from her ex and knows she'll get it here.

It would definitely be all but terrible.

I'm 30, but I don't like getting drunk. No satisfaction there for me. Pot sometimes, but not often.
 
IMHO, I'll rather discuss it here because we're all anonymous and have no relationships whatsoever, so it can't ruin anything.
 
be a man and just do it. i had to experience the same situation a few years ago.

and finaly we are maried :LOL:


life goes crazy sometimes
 
Go watch Alfie or something!

I guess you can make a big deal out of it. Some of my friends have this thing (more like a rule) that all of our ex's are off limits because it would be dishonorable to our friendships. I have never followed by these rules because I know that anything can happen at anytime between two people.

Tell you a story. My friend and his ex were married for three years, that whole time she just wanted him for the money. She said they always had sex at all times and that it was great. Her and I started talking on a more personal level and according to my friend she always talked about me in reference to how great I am or how I always have an open mind about my friend's closed minded side. I could have really cared less but the woman and I did become very close friends. We would talk for hours after my friend went to bed and just watch movies or play cards or drink a nice bottle of wine. We did this for about a year until it escalated to the next level for her. She starting dissing her husband (my friend) and would walk with me at night time at our local park whenever the weather permitted it. She told me some very startling news that she wished to divorce her husband because she no longer was satisfied with what he had to offer. She told him the next day and my friend kicked her out of the house (as per the divorce she got nothing) and she winded up on my front door with a couple suitcases. She would always come onto me in my own house and it was getting rather annoying. I should have made it clear from the beginning that I never was interested in her in a sexual way. She is a good 8.5 out of 10 so she was easily very pretty but I was just out of her leage. I basically told her that it would never happen because I had and never have had feelings toward her more than just being great friends. I gave her a week to get out of my house and then called my friend up to tell her she was gone. Him and I are still close friends to this day and we always hang out or whatever and he was never pissed at me. He know's I'm an unattached emotionally and like to sit back and ovserve kind of guy (not at other people doing it, just life) and like to live my own life how I like it.

So it all worked out. I am sure this story has nothing of merit or value to add to this but I decided I would anyway.

Besides.......I could never ever do anything against my precious lover.
 
Ok, after some serious thnking I've decided not to do it. I want to keep them both as friends and I'm not sure it'll be that easy if I do that. I never let my instincts guide me and I'm keeping it that way. I'd feel like an asshole as well, since it goes against all my moral values.

I feel like a f**kin' saint, but I'm still horny as hell. I think one of my occasional girlfriends is going to get "punished" for this tonight ;)
 
_xxx_ said:
Ok, after some serious thnking I've decided not to do it. I want to keep them both as friends and I'm not sure it'll be that easy if I do that. I never let my instincts guide me and I'm keeping it that way. I'd feel like an asshole as well, since it goes against all my moral values.

I feel like a f**kin' saint, but I'm still horny as hell. I think one of my occasional girlfriends is going to get "punished" for this tonight ;)
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Don't ever listen to L-B when it comes to porn selection. Tht is a horrible idea, I reccomend Shane's Slumber Party #8.
 
_xxx_ said:
I feel like a f**kin' saint, but I'm still horny as hell. I think one of my occasional girlfriends is going to get "punished" for this tonight ;)
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one of your whats?
 
Sage said:
Althornin said:
"Friends with benefits", we used to call em.
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i thought only chicks had those
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Nope. Rock'n'roll makes it possible (band, evil music, leather and it all happens automatically ;) )

EDIT:
Or, as Frank Zappa used to say: "Baby, I've got something for you. It looks just like a Telefunken AK47..."
 
_xxx_ said:
A friend of mine and his ex-gf went separate ways just a week ago after some 5+ years relationship. Now the problem is, she wants to sleep with me (well, I knew it for some time, but now she was open about it). I'd actually like to sleep with her as well (she's VERY sexy) but I'm kinda torn between the feelings I have for my friend and my little friend's "GO FOR IT, DUMBASS!" calls. As far as I'm concerned, it won't happen after all. But what would you guys do in such situation?

I'm avoiding her atm since my instincts tend to prevail when I'm tempted for too long... :oops:
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Do some scouting to see if she's a psycho first... all good if a friends super hot girly-ex wants your pen0s, but if she's looney its not worht the hassle even with 32DD's and a tiny waist....

...

Trust me...

Ok so I went back for seconds....

and thirds...
 
sy: she is totally ok and very cute.

She'll be coming over to my place a few times next week. We'll see if I can resist...
 
_xxx_ said:
sy: she is totally ok and very cute.

She'll be coming over to my place a few times next week. We'll see if I can resist...
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What's this talk of resisting? If she doesn't stop you in mid flow you know she's up with it. Only question is if you're happy to deal with any potential consequences. I try to live by the motto "Only do something if you're happy to be found out and deal with the consequences".
 
sytaylor said:
What's this talk of resisting? If she doesn't stop you in mid flow you know she's up with it.
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Read the thread :). _She_ is the one that wants it and has openly stated so, while _I_ have some problems with the whole thingy because of the potential consequences. I've decided against it, but I'm not that hard to persuade when it starts getting hotter. So I hope I'll be able to say no. If not, well...not a tragedy, I suppose ;)
 
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