i hear you my good man... I'm hoping all the shooters of 2010 and 2011 implement MOVE pointer controls as an option.
I suppose that'd probably be cost-prohibitive however for the titles with an online MP component (i.e. every one made these days), as the devs would likely have to spend time creating a separate play-mode to ensure MOVE & non-MOVE players aren't playing together, i.e. effectively two separate MP's for the two play-modes... hence most likely very unlikely unless some Sony bucks are exchanged ;-)
This is why I feel that their findings in Socom 4 should be published.