Joe DeFuria said:Whether it sucks or not is not my point. (Though I though Superman 2 wasn't bad at all....Sperman started to tank with 3....)
My point is, we have another "I will give up my hero status to persue something even higher and nobler, like love....but then at some point realize that being a hero is actually higher and nobler than my selfish desire for self-pleasure, and that I have to come to grips with the fact that I can't have my cake and eat it too...." plot line.
In the books Parker's reaction was largely driven by the negative public backlash his heroics were receiving, thanks to JJJ villifying him in the Daily Bugle, rather than selfish reasons. And his heroics were severely affecting his 'normal' life (school grades, money, love life, etc.). It's not selfish to want a normal, not-exhausted-24/7 life.