You don't get it do you? You're supposed to just shut up and agree
Try intercultural relationships and things get even better. My Japanese girlfriend is stubborn as fuck. There really is no point in arguing about anything because logic, facts and whatnot just don't apply. That said my ex was super easy going and Japanese as well. Than again, as it turned out she was 20 years older than me so that probably helped a bit
. Not that it was a problem for me... for her eventually it was and that's why she tried to hook me up with her (at the time) 19 year old daughter to the point where she introduced me to her and spent the whole evening bashing her BF
. Too bad she lives so far away.