Natoma said:
Hah! Shows what you know! I'm a closeted heterosexual and I've just been fooling all of you.
HA, I knew it.
Edit: I have got to go to bed but I couldn't resist making my two cents on this emotion issue. The emotion of crying is a very poor coping mechanism and it is habitual. Meaning if you cry allot you will cry allot. While I can understand the appeal of self pity and using the emotion of crying to manipulate others to generate sympathy it isn't healthy to make a habit of. Crying is a form of self pity and hence a variety of self victimization and if done regularly can cause an inferiority complex. The best way to deal with problems in the real world is to be aggressive and attack the problem always maintain hope that if you try your hardest things will work out.
Now I am not saying Natoma that you are doing this self victimization or anything of the sort only that crying is not a positive emotion, it does not come from good feelings etc and if done regularly will create a melancholy mentality. Personally I just finished working a 64 hour week and am planning on putting at least that many more in over the next week to help pay for Christmas and I am exhausted.(the work I do is far from sedentary very much a physical and mental
high stress job, cooking… again. argh) But instead of caving into bills and other money matters I decided that I would go at my financial matters extremely aggressively and I have to keep a positive frame of mind about the matter so that I don't burn out so to speak. I guess what I am trying to say is that an aggressive mentality (even a little anger too a degree.) is a far better means of dealing with stress then crying, crying is a sign of weakness as well. Thats my two cents on this crying matter.