There's not a big red detonation button in mission control these days.
I find that hard to believe.
I know that F9 FTS is basically autonomous and is generally trusted 100% after so many launches, but I find it hard to believe that there's not a human in the loop, ie. the Range Safety Officer, someone essentially completely independent of SpaceX and mission control, who doesn't get the final say. I very, very much doubt this is true at Canaveral or VdB (given the proximity of military interests), and if it was true at Boca Chica with the first launch of something this size then the FAA has dropped the ball big-time.