Scott_Arm, the next move for you is to see the trailer obviously - because... well, I mean we're talking about 'experiencing' here afterall.
http://www.gametrailers.com/player/22800.html
(It looks like the comments section of the link has already degenerated into typical game-land fare...)
I just watched it, and I definitely understand why some people would be upset by it. I don't believe it was meant to be hurtful, but I can see how some people would be uncomfortable with the imagery.