How can you tell if a girl is intelligent?
- Thread starter K.I.L.E.R
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nintenho said:
give me her phone number, i'm going to call her and tell her for you since you won't do it...
in all seriousness, though.... just ask her to a movie? it's not very hard. you don't even have to talk to her much, really. you don't have to bring any gifts, and you aren't expected to kiss her or hold her hand or anything. just watch a movie with her. once you've done this you'll feel a lot more comfortable with the next step (whatever you choose it to be, don't pressure yourself and try to make things bigger than they have to be)
bottom line- keep it simple! "hey, would you like to see a movie with me sometime?" that's all you have to say, just those few little words. And, it doesn't have to be a big production either! you can say it anywhere any time, it doesn't really matter. Do it the moment you see her next, i don't care if you're walking down the street and she's on the other side just DO IT. It's so frikking simple, unfortunately it seems so utterly complicated and impossible until you do it and then you go "that was it!? THAT WAS IT!? I COULD HAVE DONE THAT YEARS AGO!!!"
Heh, I'm not shy. Honestly, I'm at the point where I'm about to ask one of her friends to tell her to meet me and that I'll say "You like me, right? Okay, so let's hang out for a week so it looks like we go to know each other and then tell everybody".Sage said:
I'm a worthless smelly fuck....yeah, huh?
nintenho said:
nope, not a worthless smelly fuck... typical 17 year old guy.
the thing is- you're still making it too complicated. guys tend to make elaborate schemes to get women and the thing is it's not neccesary! why go through the troubble of asking one of her friends to meet you, why not just call her right now and be like "hey, i like you, let's go to dinner/movie/etc."
So what kind of intelligence are we talking about here?
The girl I am dating right now....and will marry in all probability is a Nuclear Engineer graduated from Berkeley who just got accepted to a few damn good Nuclear Engineering schools to pursue her Master/PhD (she is still deciding which). Is that the kind of intelligence you are talking about? Or are you talking about a girl who happens to be a model and can hold your attention span for more than 3 seconds when she opens her mouth and consider that "talent" on her part to be intelligence? Because my girlfriend is both the above scenarios combined.
Honestly to me intelligence is about being able to hold a conversation for no matter how long without getting the other person bored. Sex is great but it requires its own intelligence and you can enjoy that for a few hours a day...when you have time that is...but other than that her mannerisms, the way she handles problems, or gives advice, or holds herself, or even dresses, talks to other people, the way she eats at a restaurant, sense of timing, sense of class, sense of not killing your olfactory nerves by putting too much perfume and so on etc are all part of intelligence in a woman is it not? So I guess what I am trying to say is define intelligence.
The girl I am dating right now....and will marry in all probability is a Nuclear Engineer graduated from Berkeley who just got accepted to a few damn good Nuclear Engineering schools to pursue her Master/PhD (she is still deciding which). Is that the kind of intelligence you are talking about? Or are you talking about a girl who happens to be a model and can hold your attention span for more than 3 seconds when she opens her mouth and consider that "talent" on her part to be intelligence? Because my girlfriend is both the above scenarios combined.
Honestly to me intelligence is about being able to hold a conversation for no matter how long without getting the other person bored. Sex is great but it requires its own intelligence and you can enjoy that for a few hours a day...when you have time that is...but other than that her mannerisms, the way she handles problems, or gives advice, or holds herself, or even dresses, talks to other people, the way she eats at a restaurant, sense of timing, sense of class, sense of not killing your olfactory nerves by putting too much perfume and so on etc are all part of intelligence in a woman is it not? So I guess what I am trying to say is define intelligence.
