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^ ^ I did go home, and now i'm at home. Just can't leave u guys alone!

Anyway, my fav food that starts with F would have to be............. errrrrmmmmm.... WHY F!!! I can't find anything with F that i really like!!! :LOL:

When i was a little i wanted to be a writer, which i still would love to be, however it's nearly impossible. I just LOVE to write, as you guys might have noticed... But i guess i'll have to "settle" for my animation career which i know it will never take off, but what the hell, it's worth trying...


Then, Mr Gay UK (and don't take that as a compliment), u're gayer than Christmas, get over it already. And sorry, u aint having a piece of me, I'm not on the market.

However (and this is for everyone) i have a new album of pictures on that website you saw my pictures last time (remember..?).

They're here:

http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=4286768609

There are some good ones of me... If u want more, just ask, i don't bite. Ok i DO, but that's another topic...

(Remember the whole signing up thing, which is free and painless)
 
OoooOOOoooh! You can roll your tongue! :p

Nice! We want more! :D

Anyone who hasn't gone through them yet, I recommend listening to either "The Beautiful Ones" or "The Beautiful People" while you do. ;)

Slightly off-topic, I'm confident in my sexuality (which is straight). I don't feel bad about getting the occasional gay discount because of my mannerisms and aspect (which were a curse to me ten years ago at school). And flirting with men is simply good practise for flirting with women :p. Getting the occasional drink out of it is a natural bonus. :devilish: ;) :D
 
Sorry for the "What is your favorite food starting with 'F'" question, it was a stolen paraphrase of the Woody Allen line, "And I'm allergic to foods starting with the letter "F", like broccoli!" if I'm remembering it correctly.

I'm confident in my sexuality too, but I think marriage and kids kind of has a lot to do with that...also I don't really feel the need to prove much to anyone about it. ;)
 
digitalwanderer said:
I'm confident in my sexuality too, but I think marriage and kids kind of has a lot to do with that...also I don't really feel the need to prove much to anyone about it. ;)
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See Digi, that's the real difference between a straight guy (you) and a not-so-straight one... But hey... To each his own...

I had a boyfriend who kept saying he was "straight". A "straight" boyfriend who just happened to LOVE riding me for hours. Go figure.....
 
sytaylor said:
london-boy said:
Why not? U know, i don't get u people who never make the first move. If u want it, whats stopping u? :|
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Honestly? I don't know, it just feels wrong...

http://www.nvnews.net/vbulletin/attachment.php?attachmentid=6033

I had no shortage of opportunities back when I was single, but I just never saw a relationship blosseming from meeting a girl in a club for some reason.
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No no what i meant is, you already have a girlfriend, but u're not the one making a move when u want to have sex.

I really need to know why people do that, because my boyfriend is the same sometimes............... :| :devilish:
 
london-boy said:
No no what i meant is, you already have a girlfriend, but u're not the one making a move when u want to have sex.

I really need to know why people do that, because my boyfriend is the same sometimes............... :| :devilish:
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Oh no, with my gf, Im quite obvious.. I'll easily incitate something, thats no issue, just "making the first move" has being out in a bar connotations.
 
sytaylor said:
london-boy said:
No no what i meant is, you already have a girlfriend, but u're not the one making a move when u want to have sex.

I really need to know why people do that, because my boyfriend is the same sometimes............... :| :devilish:
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Oh no, with my gf, Im quite obvious.. I'll easily incitate something, thats no issue, just "making the first move" has being out in a bar connotations.
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Mmmm ok... To be honest, i never make the move on strangers either, it kinda feels weird... And to be honest, thank god i don't really need to either, so that's a bonus...

Still, i NEED to speak to anyone who, in a relationship, doesn't make the first move. I just don't get it.
 
london-boy said:
jvd said:
london-boy said:
jvd said:
bah i need to up my count post
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JVD, u're the no-first-move guy, i need relationship advice!
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Okay ask away !!!!!
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Right, u said that when u have a girl, u never really make the first move to get all, u know, sweaty and stuff......


Why is that?
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Ah that is simple .

Women . See women make no sense at all . Often times they could be sending you signals that they want to hook up. But if you act to into it then they quickly stop the flirting. This goes with hooking up too. They like what they can't have from what I have witnessed.

Take for example you have a girl. We will call her Rachel. Well Rachel is at the bar giving you looks . You can go over there and shout off a line or you can buy her a drink .

Now most likey if she is good looking half the guys that have tried picking her up have gone both ways. So what can you do to seem diffrent.

Well you can go over to her when she is in a group and introduce yourself to the group of her friends and not her . At bars most of the convos degrade into prying out what both parties want from the other sex . So while her friends are doing that basicly describer her . Pay attention and rmemeber every stupid thing her and her friends tlel ya , you need it later.

Now if your in with the friends they will start doing the work you would normaly be doing for you. I.e building you up for the girl. If the girl is still stealing looks at this point you want to drop the line that i normaly don't like to dance because i'm shy dancing by myself. If she is still into you and u did the first part right then well your getting ass that night.


Back freshman and sophmore year i was really good at that. But i'm a guy who likes to be into relationships .

I also don't like bars or clubs. So i normaly get introduced to women i go out with through my friends (my little sister (19) introduces me to a ton of girls when i vist her at college allways good )

What i normaly do then is pick which one i'm into and try to talk to her .

I don't talk much though. Not cause I don't want to. Cause really the first impulse is to talk all about yourself and how you scored 14 touchdowns in a single game and crap. But girls really dig you when u let them do all the talking .

Case in point the girl i'm really into right now . She is going to ithaca for directing . So she is learning all the editing programs . I know a little bit about this so i can follow up. I let her go on and on about it remembering all the personal things she included in it .

about three months later we were talking and she mentioned she did something with the editing and i told her oh yea that sounds almost as funny as when u did blah blah blah. She was really into me because of that. She liked that i seemed to actually listen to her and I wasn't trying to sleep with her .


Now i don't like to be the first one to try and kiss the person or sleep with the person.

I don't like doing that for a few reasons .

First rejection. It sucks we all know it sucks and hurts when someone we are into says no .

Second if you try to hook up with her too soon you may tip your hand but if you caress her cheek or stare into her eyes she is the one who will go for the kiss first.

For sex . Well I want to set a tone in the relationship. I want the girl to come to me for sex . When the woman is horny she normaly shows you the signs and what gets her so horny . She also shows you what she likes to get her into bed the quickest.

That is allways good to know when u are horney as hell. You know what buttons to press. Sure you might have a month of whacking off . But its worth it if you want a real relationship.

Note though that relationship or not if you want to sleep with the girl more than once. You can't make a move to soon as she will get upset because she feels you think she is a slut .


Anyway all this comes from having 3 sisters who so loving pointed out every mess up or stupid thing i have ever done in my life when it comes to woman . They just love to kick me when i'm down.
 
^ ^ Yeah girls can be right bastards.

So... rejection...

Ok, this is my situation, let's see if u can get ur head around it.

My BF is 28, works for British Airways, which means that he's knackered all the time, with long working hours, jet-lag and all that crap...

Well, we never have sex more than once a week (when i'm really lucky) and now it's been around 2 weeks and then some...

He can't be scared of rejection because he knows i'm always up for it, 24-7...

He might be tired, yeah, but what the fuck...

We talked about it last night, and jokingly (our conversations are always on a joking tone) i was like "well it's not normal!" and he was like "well i can go to the doctor if u want!!"... He's not seeing anyone (and let's not get into that discussion cause it just makes things too complicated), he knows i have no problems whatever he wants to do in bed, he loves it when we do it, so i just don't het it....

Most of the above stems from frustration. I'm not used to having sex once a week or longer!!!
 
Well the question is does he have problems getting it up ?



It sounds like either he isn't confterable around you. He is depressed or his diet is affecting him.


Though some people like my friend brian are very asexual and don't need nor have a desire to have sex often. His gf allways bitches that they are like an old married couple who have sex like once every other week.
 
jvd said:
Well the question is does he have problems getting it up ?



It sounds like either he isn't confterable around you. He is depressed or his diet is affecting him.


Though some people like my friend brian are very asexual and don't need nor have a desire to have sex often. His gf allways bitches that they are like an old married couple who have sex like once every other week.
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Well he doesn't have a problem getting up, i dont think so, and he's definately comfortable when i'm around, even too much...
He doesnt eat much, and he's always worried about something, there's always one...
 
london-boy said:
jvd said:
Well the question is does he have problems getting it up ?



It sounds like either he isn't confterable around you. He is depressed or his diet is affecting him.


Though some people like my friend brian are very asexual and don't need nor have a desire to have sex often. His gf allways bitches that they are like an old married couple who have sex like once every other week.
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Well he doesn't have a problem getting up, i dont think so, and he's definately comfortable when i'm around, even too much...
He doesnt eat much, and he's always worried about something, there's always one...
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well it could be stress or his diet , he may not have the energy .


I've only had trouble getting it up once in my life. We were in vegas and we were just pigging out only eating fast food for the 4 days and my system was just shot.
 
jvd said:
well it could be stress or his diet , he may not have the energy .


I've only had trouble getting it up once in my life. We were in vegas and we were just pigging out only eating fast food for the 4 days and my system was just shot.
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Yeah i mean he IS tired and all, but god I NEED TO F**K. :LOL:
He might have a prob getting it up, i mean he does have a LOT to get up if u know what i mean, but thats not the point, he never had a prob with me! It does go up, but he just can't be bothered with the sex... oh well... He promised me we'll have more sex in the future...

It's just that sometimes it's like he's doing me a favour, when in the end he should only be so lucky.......


(OK this is me in a frustrated mood)
 
tell him to change his diet a bit. www.menshealth.com has some good articles on food and the sex drive. Like right now . Michelle branch could be in my bed and i woulnd't care cause i've been up for 18 hours and i can't move
 
jvd said:
tell him to change his diet a bit. www.menshealth.com has some good articles on food and the sex drive. Like right now . Michelle branch could be in my bed and i woulnd't care cause i've been up for 18 hours and i can't move
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Yeah i guess... And his job is a killer so i do understand. It's just that sometimes i just NEED some. We're all guys in the end!! That's why i just can't see how he can only have sex once or maybe twice a month and not being frustrated like i am...
 
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