Women, Sex and Orgasms
- Thread starter Reverend
- Start date
Sage said:
Me, me, me. Everyone look at poor little me. The record is broken, take it off the spindle.
Tho if you *do* care, other than Digi's sage advice, here's another tip --get her when she's ovulating. God or Darwin (take your pick) makes them more physically horny at that time. Of course, there are liable to be other side effects as well if you aren't careful to avoid them. . . 
Dr. Ffreeze
Regular
Reverand,
Yes I believe that is true. I would not always blame the lack of orgasm in an entire woman's life because of some phisical problem though. If I had to guess I would probably blame it more on a mental problem (or issue), one that can be fixed if so desired. I believe most women have to be ok with their sexual self before a man is able to help them achieve orgasm. If a woman has never had one, then that means she has never pleasured herself (at least to compleation).
If a woman is unable to achieve orgasm with a man, then I would first look at the woman. Is she comfortable with sexual self? Is she comfortable pleasing herself. Does she know what she likes? Does she know how to bring herself to completion? Can she communicate her needs and desires to her mate? If all of these are answered with a yes, then it looks like she checks out on the basics.
Then you need to ask the man some questions. Is he comfortable with his sexual self? Does she want to please her? Is he willing to sacrafice his pleasure for her's? Is he willing to listen and respond to what her needs are?
Practice practice practice! =)
But that is a start...
Yes I believe that is true. I would not always blame the lack of orgasm in an entire woman's life because of some phisical problem though. If I had to guess I would probably blame it more on a mental problem (or issue), one that can be fixed if so desired. I believe most women have to be ok with their sexual self before a man is able to help them achieve orgasm. If a woman has never had one, then that means she has never pleasured herself (at least to compleation).
If a woman is unable to achieve orgasm with a man, then I would first look at the woman. Is she comfortable with sexual self? Is she comfortable pleasing herself. Does she know what she likes? Does she know how to bring herself to completion? Can she communicate her needs and desires to her mate? If all of these are answered with a yes, then it looks like she checks out on the basics.
Then you need to ask the man some questions. Is he comfortable with his sexual self? Does she want to please her? Is he willing to sacrafice his pleasure for her's? Is he willing to listen and respond to what her needs are?
Practice practice practice! =)
But that is a start...
Haven't read the whole thread but as a man I know my short comings and while i do things to hopefully help me last longer , I will bring in vibraters to help my gf get to that point . I normaly do some down below work , then bring in the vibrater get her going and then go in for hte kill . about 80% of the time i get her to climax
Yes another good postion is to put the girl on a table or desk and enter her from the front (not doggie) this puts less pressure on your dick and allows you to last longer , it also allows you to hit her spot more than when your on top .
Other tips are to change positons and sometimes go from intercourse to you down below for a min or two and then bakc to intercorse as it allows you to last longer while her still getting stimulation .
Also when you pee , stop your self and start again , it builds up the muscle there and allows you to stop yourself from cumming .
Also when your playing with your self stop just before your breaking point and repeat ... allows you to last longer .
I actually did get a girl off through intercourse once... and she was on top, doing all the work
I did that once when i REEAAAAALLY had to pee, midstream during a piss so bad that I dont think anyone else in the world could have stopped it, and I started to feel this burning sensation moving down the tube to my right testacle. You can imagine how terrified I was! So, I let loose again just in time, before it actually got to my testicle. But now, sometimes when I have to pee really bad or stop midstream during a pretty average stream, it starts to burn a little bit. Heck sometimes it just aches for no reason. It was kinda like a one-way valve got forced open and turned into a two-way valve.jvd said:
PM me with your email, I can send you a very interesting html file... someone needs to do it and tell me if it works since I'll never get to
You should go to the doctor , it sounds like something is wrong .
I had testicular cancer a year and a half ago and let me tell you don't fuck with your privates . THose and your eyes are the two things as soon as you feel the same pain for more than a day you should get check out .
It may be a uirnay track infection or it may be worse . Go get it check out that is not good .
jvd said:
nah, it's not really a major reccuring problem. i just remember with great fear the instant that I realize pee was going where it WAS NOT supposed to go! I mean, there's the normal occasional achiness that's kind of in the background but nothing that really beggs for my attention. kinda like your bac, neck, and shoulders- they always have kind of a residual pain, sometimes they hurt a bit worse, but it's just normal stuff.
