Same as every generation, the numbers war is happening only among a vocal minority of forum dwellers trying to justify the choice they already made.
A good marketing trick to sell video games is showing the games. The average gamer is not confused, because the average gamer couldn't care less about technology.
The game journalists however are very confused because most of them are incredibly technologically illiterate. They need click money, so they need to talk about it to get paid. It's a very sad situation.
Some of them have a brain, and instead of writing bullshit, they book interviews with actual developers to demystify and answer their audience submitted questions. Some know what they are talking about (eurogamer), and others are reading the beyond3d console tech forum to understand more about it.
It's more willful ignorance and cognitive dissonance, there's nothing to be done about it.