Prior to this gen, every console ever sold worked with the existing display technology in your house.
But that's because things just happened to work out nicely. CRT monitors and SD TV's both had the same aspect ratio; in addition, CRT monitors didn't have a "native resolution". It's not like monitor companies went out of their way to add console support, nor did Microsoft/Sony/Nintendo go out of their way to add support for monitors. That of course all changed with HD TV's and LCD monitors.
They are targeting anyone intersted in buying their consoles.
To a degree. That's a lot of work they have to put in (especially for Sony since they don't have a dedicated scaling chip IIRC) for (what I assume) is a pretty small market. Microsoft and Sony have to prioritize their resources; I can't imagine "monitor support" is high on their list.
but a very few people around me knows that they can hook up their 360 to monitors...
There are five people on my dorm floor that have Xbox 360's. All of them have it hooked up to their monitors with proper scaling.