If you examine the network connection properties of a PC bluetooth mouse, you'll see it pretty much exclusively receives packets from the mouse, ie, no acks at all. I've used BT mice heavily for HOURS in the past without a single packet sent to the mouse. Most of the activity comes when the mouse and PC handshakes, and afterwards only when there's packet loss of some kind I assume.
Besides, I would think that wifi and BT would reside on separate frequency channels, and that no particular coordination between the two takes place, ie, they'll transmit whenever they need to. If you have four controllers sending data randomly to the PS3, you can't time wifi activity around that. I would be immensely surprised if any technical limitation would exist in PS3 that precludes simultaneous wifi/BT, considering the thing has been designed with both included as standard (in the expensive model).