I agree.
AoE was just a different type of Strategy game. I think because it was much more based on in-game information & predictions. I remember studying the Nations charts and developing strategies & theories for each of them. Then, trying those strats out in 6 player FFA, etc. Fine tuning or learning from it. More than a thousand games played.
The new Age of Empires Definitive Edition in 4k.. is looking to be true to it's origins. I found a forum here discussing it, unfortunately I am rather new to this community and unable to link you to that exact forum. In PC games forum.
Games were so much more complicated back then. It's actually quite funny how streamlined games are today. One of these games is going to call out to someone on this thread Syndicate is definitely an honourable mention. I totally forgot about it, but this game was ace.