But when i go on vacation i dont want to have to worry about being in a train and looking for unattended packages. But maybe i should start doing that around here too.
I guess its because im going with my wife, and am more apprehansive of these things.
You won't have to go looking for unattended luggage, it will be all over the train (at least in germany in a train with many passengers). If that bothers you you'll likely return being a nervous wreck. :?
If you don't feel comfortable or safe here in europe don't come here for your holiday, it will just ruin your experience.