DemoCoder said:
I simply don't buy it. Children are a consumer good now instead of an investment good. In developing countries, children are an investment. Large extended familities spread out risk, provide labor, and are a form of private social security. To top it off, contraception is often unavailable, so child bearing, unavoidable.
But my question to you is, is this because, in general, people have children almost as soon as they're capable of having children in developing countries? Is that why they're seen as an investment, because the chance of dying is so much higher, vs a family in an industrialized country where child mortality and survival rates are so low they're not even considered?
In a world where you
expect your child to live, then I can see why they'd be seen as a "consumer good," as you put it.
DemoCoder said:
There is zero incentive for westerners in their 80s to breed like Mormons. Raising a child is an *incredibily expensive and time intensive* task, even if you are well off. Educated westerners know it, and the loss of freedom, stress, and responsibility it entails.
The time compression theory simply doesn't work. My mother didn't have her first children until 24, yet she still managed to produce 4 kids (I have 3 siblings) by age 30.
I'm speaking about the population in general. How old are you Democoder? I ask this because I want to know what "era" your mother had kids. Are you Gen X? Gen Y? Baby Boomer? Older?
My mother had my brother when she was 21, and had me when she was 23. However, she has told me on several occassions that realistically she didn't want to have kids until she was in her mid 30s, so that she could get her career and be fiscally settled. However, that would have made it exponentially more difficult to have children, due to the fact that there were really no reproductive technologies at the time other than the relatively new "test tube baby" procedure. I was born in '77 and my brother in '75.
Now, if you extend the lifespan of a human being to 200, and extend the reproductive lifespan to 90-100, do you think your mother, and my mother for that matter, would have had us as young as they did? Or would they have waited another decade or so to get their own lives in order, then have children?
Personally, I want children. But, I want children when I know I'm capable of raising them in a fiscally sound and emotionally sound environment. I don't feel I'd be able to provide that environment completely (at least when it comes to the fiscal part), until my boyfriend and I are in our mid-to-late 30s. If people were capable of reproducing into their 90s and 100s, then the pressure and incentive to have children would be lessened. It would become less of a "consumer good," i.e. something to "have," and more of a time investment.
"We've got our lives in order. Now we can bring another generation into this world."
You say that there's no incentive for an 80 year old, keeping in mind that an 80 year old in this future world is more like a 30 year old in terms of overall lifespan and reproductive capability. However, as you said, raising a child is time consuming and expensive. Is it time consuming and expensive because of the nature of raising children in and of itself? Or is it time consuming and expensive because of how we structure our lives in this rat race? We get out of college and "settle down" by the time we're 30. We have 35 years to work before retirement, and during that time that we're working toward our own retirement, we're worrying about raising enough capital to send our son and/or daughter to private school, college, grad school, etc.
Lengthen that time frame, and I believe you increase the incentive to have kids. It's no longer a rat race where kids are consumer items, but a slow enjoyable build in which kids are an investment in the future.
I guess I'm just an optimist in this regard whereas you're a cynical old fart.
DemoCoder said:
I have a much better theory: materialistic, cosmopolitan, educated, westerners, used to a care-free life of freedom and hedonism, are shocked into brutal reality after they get their first kid, house, and SUV. They might try for a second kid if they did not get the gender they wanted, or on the theory that having a sibling is better off for the kid's social development, but it is unlikely that they will want more after that -- not because the women is infertile or too old -- but simply because the task of raising a large family in modern society is expensive and time consuming.
You're so cynical.
DemoCoder said:
Let's look at Sweden, where the welfare state had completely removed all responsibility from parenting. Women in Sweden can effectively be single mothers with little financial impact, and child care is provided by the state. Has this caused Swedish women to go out and pop-out babies like crazy? quite the contrary. Swedish women have become alot more sexually promicious while at the same time, birth rates declined, and marriage rates are at rock bottom.
Modern technology and wealth has freed us from being imprisoned by our gene's desires to spread themselves. We are able to resist the urge to have children and focus on ourselves and our own personal growth.
I personally don't care about spreading my genes so "some part of me" will be available in the year 2100. I hope to be present myself.
Well I don't know enough about Sweden to comment on their particular social order, but I'd gather that it's the same overarching problem facing all industrialized nations, as I said before. People are "growing up" and doing their own thing in longer and longer intervals, because the premium is placed on knowledge in industrialized nations.
When they're
finally adults, they find that they're too old to have kids. If they're able to "grow up" in an industrialized nation, hit 40, and realize they've got another 50 years of reproductivity left, I think you'd find a lot of people choosing to have large families, because they can afford to do so. Large families by their very nature are very condusive to the type of society you spoke about that exists in developing countries.
That is why I believe that if you extend the reproductive age as well as the life span, you will have a population boom, even in an industrial/technological society. Of course, I don't know if Koss/Kass/whatever the hell his name is took that into consideration. If he didn't, then his theory is pretty much full of holes as you stated.
However, by you not taking that into consideration, you're also missing a very big point wrt the transition from an agragrian society to an industrial/technological society imo.